oh, my 99 is such a kind of mother, never let her son to do housework at all, always ask me to wash the grapes, cherry for my hubby, I ignored her few times, then she washed it by herself and wait for her darling son come back home to eat after dinner.
After living with my 99, I finally understand how come my hubby never know how to protect me after we married - just because he was over protected by his mom
When I asked my hubby help me to wash up the dishes after dinner, my 62 told me that he will wash it for me