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ac321

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好媽媽勳章

1^#

發表於 08-7-23 13:54 |顯示全部帖子

Can you tell more? How much you pay for 老爺家用、日常必要開支? and extra? How much you pay for the flat (you are living)? How much you pay for your 老爺's flat (一半用我老公名義買o既一個二手flat)? We don't know those details, it is difficult to give you advise.

原文章由 muiskyie 於 08-7-22 19:37 發表
尋求對策﹏丈夫快變人乾了!!

他年底要失業...

原來老爺同我老公講：

若佢兩老冇＄到手
就賣鬼o左我地住梗o個個單位喎～～～
「話之我地一家三口瞓街」o掛...

注意：

此乃家用、日常必要開支以外的索款，

亦非購置房屋的還 ...

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ac321

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發表於 08-7-24 22:14 |顯示全部帖子

How about you move out with your husband?

Your 99 can rent her flat (you are living now) for someone. Then, your 99 can use the rent to pay for 兩老新住所月供(銀行還款)、管理費、差餉、水、電、煤及日用品等。

And your husband only need to give his parent some living expense, say 4k per monthly.

You 2 rent a flat outside. May be 7-8k (or find some cheaper one).

Then, you will not have such kind of feeling: 一家三口庫房快被99陰乾了!!

Tell the truth, you may only 2k more monthly. Most important, you don't need to look at your 99's face as you are not living in her flat!!!

But 20k per monthly is not enough for a family of 3 people (if you haven't get a public house). You are better to work outside so that you can have more $. (so that you can give some to your parent monthly)

原文章由 muiskyie 於 08-7-24 21:29 發表
我先生d＄即佢地o既＄...

-老公每月約$20000...
-最少$13000被抽到6299的高床暖枕之上...

-$7500=兩老新住所月供(銀行還款)、管理費、差餉、水、電、煤及日用品等。
-$4000=6299伙食
-$1000=「（你結婚、買樓、生仔＄＄＄　我 ...

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發表於 08-7-24 22:18 |顯示全部帖子

I think yes.
It is because they are living in their 99's flat (fully pay and don't need to 供).
So they need to 供62 99 住的居屋, (係her 99 + husband個名). They exchange their flat with 99's flat because her husband don't want to live in 居屋, right?

原文章由 BigChoi 於 08-7-24 22:04 發表
咁都係唔明, 即係而家62 99 住的居屋, 係妳哋嘅個名. 係妳哋供

[ 本文章最後由 ac321 於 08-7-24 22:20 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-7-24 22:36 |顯示全部帖子

There ae some place to take care of new born baby (from 4 month to 2 years). For full day, about 2xxx.
If you earn more, you can hire a bun bun / yan yan.
You don't need to give your baby to your 99.
I am sure there are lots of parents here not give their baby to 99 and can work in day time.

原文章由 muiskyie 於 08-7-24 22:32 發表

我出去做工，個仔就「順理成章」地（好似我以前返part-time時段咁）被劫走。就係佢地（主要係９９）鍾意起風浪、挑撥離間講是非，我至忍無可忍自己全職接手。

其實我都有考慮我媽湊仔、我出家用。不過佢本身已經係半個經濟之柱，加 ...

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發表於 08-7-24 22:42 |顯示全部帖子

你結婚、買樓、生仔＄＄＄　我咁幫你，）你要孝順」一定要俾!!
　留意：這筆款項並不會計算作還給６２的金錢！
How much your 99 pay for those?

原文章由 muiskyie 於 08-7-24 21:29 發表
我先生d＄即佢地o既＄...

-老公每月約$20000...
-最少$13000被抽到6299的高床暖枕之上...

-$7500=兩老新住所月供(銀行還款)、管理費、差餉、水、電、煤及日用品等。
-$4000=6299伙食
-$1000=「（你結婚、買樓、生仔＄＄＄　我 ...