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發表於 08-10-16 17:49 |顯示全部帖子
Don't be angry. She is wrong as she use 粗口罵 you.
However, you are also wrong. You should not say that "你有無攪錯, 用自己食過的快子去夾湯喳, 你講唔講衛生嫁, 叫人點再筆湯飲".
It is because I do the same at my house (but not do that when eat outside such as eat in other's or 99's house. )
If my brother's wife said those words to me. I will ask her go out of my families. We do that for more than 30 years. We don't think it is wrong. If you agree with us, then you (as a outsider) can lives with us. If not, then move out.
That's all. But I will not use 粗口.

Smiliarly, some daughter in law request their 99 use public 快子去夾 dishes when they have dinner in 99's house. If I was their 99, I will 'throw' them out of my flat!

P.S. hope you don't mind my words!
As a outsider, never try to change what they (your husband's families) have done for years, even it is correct or not. Just don't live together to prevent contact.


原文章由 leopak 於 08-10-16 17:11 發表
件事昨天發生的, 晚上一家人食晚飯,
之後我就飲湯. 而我姑仔跟著我之後筆湯飲, 但係她筆完湯之後, 就用自己食過的快子去夾入面湯d湯喳. 當時我好自然對她講, "你有無攪錯, 用自己食過的快子去夾湯喳, ...


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發表於 08-10-17 14:05 |顯示全部帖子
Don't cry la!
You should be happy now, as you will move out next month!!!

原文章由 leopak 於 08-10-16 18:30 發表
ac321,

多謝你意見. 其實我亦知他們屋企是這樣. 不過, 在於我來說, 我只是不想大家有細菌傳染. 反正湯匙在煲內了. 為什麼要多此一舉呢? 始終, 這是小事一中已已.
不過, 她的大反應另我嚇驚. 原來我只是個街 ...


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發表於 08-10-17 17:32 |顯示全部帖子
Yes, you are wrong.
You should close your BB房's door.
And ask you 99 出聲 if necessary (ask her to close her door, but allow her to smoke), not you.
It is because it is her room. She can do everything inside her room.


原文章由 leopak 於 08-10-17 17:25 發表


在她自己房間, 但是食完後開門, 對正BB房. (煙味還在).
BB 肺部不好, 所以我驚常為此和好嘈.

這是我錯要她改變為我. 那我可以不出聲嗎?


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發表於 08-10-17 17:36 |顯示全部帖子
You are so lucky as you have a nice 99!!!!

原文章由 leopak 於 08-10-17 17:25 發表


在她自己房間, 但是食完後開門, 對正BB房. (煙味還在).
BB 肺部不好, 所以我驚常為此和好嘈.

這是我錯要她改變為我. 那我可以不出聲嗎?


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發表於 08-10-17 17:51 |顯示全部帖子
The room is not good for BB!!

原文章由 leopak 於 08-10-17 17:40 發表


ac321,

但我都想成日關閉BB對房門, 但係BB房無窗, 我不可以長期關上.

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