Please could you two send me some information of private 評估again? I found hinhin has not too much improvements and want to bring him to check again. Thank you very much!
However, many ppl around me (my parents, my sisters, my friends, and my sister's friend who works for child education) can observe that hinhin has some problems. They all push me to bring hinhin to do evaluation and trainning. I am upset and worry, and also a bit frustrated (which I know I shouln't has this feeling towwards my son).
Hinhin does not willing to say Good morning, Thank you to others (including grandparents, cousins, teachers, relatives...) but he is willing to say these to us. 又5肯叫人, 總之叫佢叫公公啦, 婆婆啦, 姨姨啦, c都唔肯講. This is very impolite so C6 and me are very angry with him.
同佢reading books, 問佢邊個係"花"字, C 都唔肯用手指個"花"字. 一係用個 "Nose 尖"指, 一係捉我隻手指去指. 唔小心整跌野又大喊, 叫佢pick it up 又唔肯,大吵大嚷 (好討厭). 如果我捉佢隻手執返就唔喊, 不過c6又話我縱容佢. 我地呢排罰同打佢已經好多次了, 每次我都好心痛, 但5教又唔得. 罰佢企, 佢可以大喊成粒鐘都唔收聲. 我同c6掌佢咀呀 (我知唔岩, 但真係好扯火), 佢都唔肯服從指示去做.
去做評估la, 做完你先知問題的根源 <--- Jenny : Yes agree.
另外, 想問
1. 你地同佢講中文, 英文 定係 中英文? <--- Mostly Englsih. But we are talking more Cantonese with him now.
2. 睇落, 可能感統有少少野, 因為佢唔想同人有身體上的接觸, 而且, 喊成個鐘依d 都可能係情緒控制上有困難, 都係關感統事 (本體覺, 前庭覺依d) <--- Jenny: I talked to his class teacher today, she said hinhin seems not have 感統事, she said hin hin can walk and run very good, Balanceing also good. But she also highly suggest we bring hinhin to do assessment.
佢唔想同人講ee 叔叔, 係佢地未明咩叫有禮貌, 同埋如果佢真係有d 咩內在問題, 佢唔想同人接觸所以先唔講 <--- Jenny: Yes agree with you that the foundation problem is 佢唔想同人接觸所以先唔講. I must do something and give some trainning to him to pull him out from this.
你唔好同你家姐個女比, 男仔同女仔發展唔同, 女仔係快d 架, 到左小學尾段先會拉近, 男仔好多時上到中學, 甚至高中先開"hill"架 <--- Jenny: Yes, but always 心"UP". Why this happen to my baby?
我可以話你知, 我仔由1-差不多5歲, 無一日係唔喊的, 每一日都叫破口嚨, 依家每week 都有去做職業治療的training 好左好多, 到底, 好多時佢地有d內在問題我地唔知, 所以唔知點教, 比多d時間佢la <--- Jenny: Teacher said he sometimes also disorder the class, but can be controlled. Luckily school and teachers are not really complain. Now I start to worry how to 考小學 at K2. Which school will admit a child who is 不啾不采 & impolite? We need to start trainning asap and help him to improve his social skill and communication skill.
例如我早兩日同佢行完街市, 之後我問佢見過咩野呀, 佢唔識答. 要我提佢 "叔叔切切咩野呀?" 佢先識答魚魚. 有咩veggie 呀, 佢先會答 broccoli 啦, 我又要再問"仲有呢", 佢又答 Carrot. 跟住又要引導佢答其他野. 但係我姨甥女大軒軒少少only係可以一輪咀答晒, 又識提問又識講笑. 咁, 到底係佢地叻, 而我個仔只係冇咁叻. 抑或係佢地係normal on the track, 而我個仔係delay 呢?
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