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諗落做外母好似易過做99... 我成日諗我將來會唔會係一個好外母...

依家被99壓迫的你，將來會唔會係一個好99？

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I will tell my son similiar words: get marry and have a family should be 好大責任,要想清楚有能力至好get marry and 生 baby!

原帖由 EVA222 於 09-9-30 10:20 發表

我變態到話生細路好大責任,要想清楚有能力至好生,e+女多男少,最怕佢嫁唔出,大家相依為命,有時見中老年母女吵大鑊,攪到上港聞版.

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第時如果湊孫, 又好多婆媳糾紛出現
唔湊孫又覺得我唔幫輕佢.

所以都唔知點做先叫好.

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-9-29 20:08 發表
........ I always say: if you want to complain about your 99, then ask yourself what you have done to your 99 first.

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-9-29 16:21 發表
me too.........
I am 100% sure I will be a 'bad' 99 !
It is because :
I won't live with them => she may said that I 'force' her to move out, and I don't consider her conditions (no $ to ren ...

以上呢D大部份就係呢到D新抱complaint 99 D衰野, 有時真係要異地而處, 諗諗如果你係99你會點做和點諗. 唔好要求咁多, 就唔會咁大失望.

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........ I always say: if you want to complain about your 99, then ask yourself what you have done to your 99 first.

原帖由 alicemic 於 09-9-29 19:54 發表
原來當角式掉轉咗，個個都係大家而家口中既衰99！唔會比錢阿仔結婚/買樓，唔湊孫，唔幫新抱坐月，唔會煮飯.....等等！

不過我都一定唔係好99！阿仔當佢老婆係公主(特別係而家d女仔)，但我都係我老公既公主啫，我仲要係太上皇，無理由 ...

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原來當角式掉轉咗，個個都係大家而家口中既衰99！唔會比錢阿仔結婚/買樓，唔湊孫，唔幫新抱坐月，唔會煮飯.....等等！

不過我都一定唔係好99！阿仔當佢老婆係公主(特別係而家d女仔)，但我都係我老公既公主啫，我仲要係太上皇，無理由要我就佢架？但係佢一定會好似而家d人咁諗，我未嫁之前係父母既主公，碗都唔洗洗，仲要食生果有人切埋，點解嫁咗要我做呀！佢咁諗做99既就更唔鍾意佢，呢個係一個循環，所以我唔會係一個好99！

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生完囡囡無幾耐，老公問我將來會唔會幫個女湊BB，我好直接咁講：唔會！因為太辛苦！

老公當時即刻話我自私...

講真！邊個唔想睇住自己個孫大，但係眼見我媽咪幫我湊女湊得咁辛苦！佢出心出力幫我地湊，我偶然都仲會話佢咁湊法唔啱 (我老公有時都會有一兩句講)... 媽咪當然唔高興，不過兩母女無隔夜仇，佢真係幫我幫到底，我真係好感謝佢！

我自問無咁偉大，如果將來個女婿有說話我聽，我實同佢反面... :;pppp:

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原帖由 EVA222 於 09-9-29 11:56 發表
好唔好睇新抱女婿係乜類型,我唔太熱情,如果遇著個冷漠女婿,佢可能覺得ok,一定不可共住,我最怕無自由同湊孫.

我同你一樣, 我都係外母, 我都唔會湊孫, 佢地鍾意生又好, 唔生又好, 我都唔會理, 我睇見細路都怕怕, 老左係我享受人生既時間, 唔想比人縛死一世!!

謀事在人，成事在天，個天先係最終揸"fit"人！！

你恨的人，來生不會再見，所以別在他身上浪費時間；你愛的人，來生也不會再見，所以今生要好好對他。

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How about if you 遇著個後生女 like that:
She live in your flat with her kids (a family), use yours, eat yours ... and give you 1k or 2k monthly (not her, but your son give you), and complain that you don't treat her nice as you don't buy/cook expensive food for her, you don't buy expensive fruit for her, you don't do the housework ...............

原帖由 cocolulu 於 09-9-29 17:02 發表
時下的後生女, 遇著個無禮貌, 頂撞下你, 你又還她一句, 咁就已經好易變成人地口中的衰99.

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係呀係呀，最緊要唔一齊住，唔會煲湯煮飯比佢地食架，哈哈哈

原帖由 ac321 於 09-9-29 16:21 發表
me too.........
I am 100% sure I will be a 'bad' 99 !
It is because :
I won't live with them => she may said that I 'force' her to move out, and I don't consider her conditions (no $ to ren ...

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我99不算善待我
但又不至衰到話是壓迫
對巨都有種種不滿
將來的事不敢講
至少今時今日我都自認在努力做個好新抱
可惜巨不識欣賞
:-(

少奶奶的身份，丫頭的命...

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me too.........
I am 100% sure I will be a 'bad' 99 !

It is because :
I won't live with them => she may said that I 'force' her to move out, and I don't consider her conditions (no $ to rent a flat).
I won't 比錢佢地買樓/結婚 => my daughter in-law would think I was a cheap 99 (have $ and won't give her!)
I won't 煲soup to 新抱 even she is 大肚 => she may complain that I don't care about her.
I won't help her to 坐月 => she may complain that I am selfish as she give me a grandson (and I do nothing).
I won't help her to 湊孫 => she may complain that I am a lazy 99.

I won't 'talk' too much with her ....... It is because I worry that I say the name of my son's ex g/f and my daughter in-law may think that I am a 賤人99 as 把口又提住老公個前度女朋友做咩呀xxxxxxxx

Tell the truth, being a 'good' 99 is very difficult!