I think your husband is a traditional man, esp. he is the eldest son. Same as my husband.
- 所以當你話要分開住,佢會覺得你離開佢,同分手冇分別;
- 一个traditional man 要去marriage counselling 是很難, my C6 must refuse.
其實,你可以唔理我地,只要你問心,妳仲愛唔愛佢, if 大家仲愛大家, 相處上可以慢慢tune.
呢一刻可能你好難受,好氣 or 心淡, but your husband 又何嘗唔係, 可能佢根本就唔知點處理, so his reaction was