I have changed to a full time mom since my second baby was born nov 06. My older girl was raised up by the indo. maid until 2.5 years old as I was working after she was born. She couldn't talk much and didn't recognize me as mom. It was so upset when I saw her sitting on the maid's lap and not mine after a whole day work at home. So I gave up my job when I was pregnant for the second baby. Now my girl loves me and had close relationship with me. I haven't employed foreign domestic helper anymore and only helped by a part time local helper.
i am a full time mum. i gave up working since i have my son - he is now 20 months - he loves me very much and he is a very happy baby. it's worth to take care him myself and it's indeed the best part of my life so far.
I'm planning to be a full time mum this summer (resign after receiving bonus in July). I've been working for 10 years and now want to be a full time mum to spend more time with my girl. She is now 11 months old and is take care by my mother.
PoohMak, I agreed with your point that it's time for us to spend more time with our family, especially, our children.
I'm planning to be a full time mum this summer (resign after receiving bonus in July). I've been working for 10 years and now want to be a full time mum to spend more time with my girl. She is now 11 months old and is take care by my mother.
PoohMak, I agreed with your point that it's time for us to spend more time with our family, especially, our children.
When you ladies are so great to give up jobs to be full time mom, I'm full time mom now.... but want to get back to work...
I also have some hesitation on jobs but I do want to work, besides, I think I need some room and my family need that as well... I'm also grad. at 99 ah. (below I saw someone grad. at same year if I'm not wrong).
then I gave up my job, 媽媽和奶奶都是看 工作 ( 錢) 好重的人, 雖然沒講到出口想我不要放棄高薪湊女, 但是就會從不同話題表現出來, 例如會介紹 better maid 比我, 問我打算幾時工作 ....
本來自己都想好 o salary 2 -3 years, 結果因為時常提放棄高薪, c6 就 rely this learning and education part all on my own, 自己開始有壓力要女女好好, 讀到好的kinder, 就向這面出發, 所以現在見到其他人努力找教材, 自己都會努力, 有時自己知自己在這裡有壓力, 都會覺得點 解自己好似 from a useful person become a weak person ge...... :cry: 可能自己是新手媽媽, 奶奶住得近但都沒問下我們掂唔掂 就 assume 我們好掂卦...
現在好d找到有d situation and background 相似的 neighbour, 大家可以share and spend some time with each other...so I also hope we can be friend here and share how we can teach our kids better together...
做左full time mom就由03/8開始, 因為個時懷緊第一胎幾個月, 返工時成日流血~ 所以早左resign! 不經不覺, 4年lu! 我就05年master畢業~第2胎都係06年8月出世喇! 放棄高薪厚職係一大掙扎, 都用左成年先適應得好d~ 依家成日都仲有問....不過我會同自己講, 就係因為我地有學識, 先至有呢個選擇, cos we chose the best!
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