But there's a saying that 三歲定八十, so wouldnt the period before they turn 3 be the most critical period for the parents to get hands on in their education?
I'm a new FTM also!!
My oldest is 2yr old and my youngest is 7months, and I just resigned from a position I have held for 3 years.
Certainly I miss my team a lot and definitely miss being challenged at work, but the kids are my highest priorities.
In the past I have been relying on my mom and two helpers to care for them, but I can see in my eldest that the job of educating/disciplining the kids must be carried out by the mother!
我現在是一位雙職的媽媽,真的辛苦,或者是社會决策者的錯,要我哋小朋友提前學習,令家長有經濟,追求win在起跑綫的壓力。4年full time mama 的工作當然辛苦過返office,我雖然享受做全職媽媽,但失去shopping 的慾望。現在女兒4歳4個月,見証她每天都要進步,有良好生活習慣,學校内或者出街都會遷就其她小朋友,亦喜歡群體生活,是一位懂事乖巧小朋友,回家會自動自覺做功課,每晩要看完書才會睡,所以我準她升小一時會全職返工。不好的是不懂戎夜片和需要餵吃飯。