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我覺得係d老人家先會認為浪費, 讀書明理, 點解一定要做野先啱呢? 不過我都怕有d悶, 真係要一d自己既空間囉, 同埋有時會覺得自己無用, 尢其見到自己d同學升職加薪...雖然我知唔可以同日而語既...

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我都係全職媽媽 (唔駛出去返工), 十年前大學畢業, 而家 home office 形式做嘢, 我認為:
1. 自我價值很重要.
2. 自尊很重要.
3. Keep the pace with the world 也很重要.
如果想做全職媽媽, 做一兩個鐘part-time 也好或者像大頭貓所講炒股也好盡可能要自己有收入, 盡可能keep住有賺錢的能力, 否則我過唔到自己果關.
所以話做女人很慘, 又要照顧家庭又要有賺錢的能力, 所以我決定不再生, 我怕生女啊!

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Agree! But not everyone can get something to work at home, you're very lucky!

I didn't work since 2005 la, now baby is 1 yr old, so I'm thinking and starting to find job (though picky on 5 days work...

, and hope to get one with less OT). of course if possible, will try to find part time job instead of full time...

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hi 各位mami

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waihinma,

Agree. 自我價值同自尊很重要, 所以我8月加入全職媽媽大隊後, 都會setup home business, 搞個 web site, 賣

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Hello Everyone,
I am new to this session. I worked for 7years after U graduated, last year I quit my job as known I was pregnant. Now my baby boy is 2 months, I am thinking about whether to work again? Although I enjoy to play and teach my baby, I felt a bit financial stress, tightness of living space (as the increased family member- baby and a maid).
How do you think about this situation?

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大學時讀邊科ga, 你可以留意下有無Freelance啱你做.
我試過3個情況:
1. 工人湊, 出外工作(約16K)---勁掛心,囝囝又湊到呆呆地咁
2. 唔請工人, 自己湊---超辛苦
3. 請工人, 做Freelance(7-8K)---最開心, 囝囝又乖又醒

由囝囝9個月起, 我就係第3種情況. 家務俾晒工人做, 我陪囝囝玩,看書等. 他睡覺時我可以做Freelance, 同就業市場有番d聯繫, 又夠我自己開支.
現在無返工咁倦. 返工個陣, 到禮拜六日, 雖然好想同囝囝出街, 但通常都因為太倦, 落樓下公園就算. 而家就可以帶到去遠些, 多些地方law.

Vanessa_Li 寫道:
Hello Everyone,
I am new to this session. I worked for 7years after U graduated, last year I quit my job as known I was pregnant. Now my baby boy is 2 months, I am thinking about whether to work again? Although I enjoy to play and teach my baby, I felt a bit financial stress, tightness of living space (as the increased family member- baby and a maid).
How do you think about this situation?

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Hello everyone,
it is good to see so many "full-time mother-mate".
being a FT mum for almost 2 yrs, what i can tell is "mother" is the toughest job/mission in the world.

Honestly speaking, seeing babies grow is the happiest reward, but I do have some indifferent moments. eg. when you see your old school mate stepping upper and upper, or you see even your junior staff is now sitting in the same position as your latest one...... all these make me feel down for sometimes.

To keep myself up all the times is to remind myself that my babies need me more than any other one does.

regarding the financial side, of course, it will be a big impact on the housewhole income when we are not working, but if your hubby can support the basic housewhole spending and with certain emergency money, I guess, money is no more big deal.

let's look for the best.

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I studied rehabilitation science, most of the job is full-time or part-time. when I got interview, most of the employers refuse me as I am too expensive (my last salary was 25k). they donot want to pay for experienced staff, not care for the service quaility.
my maid quit last week, so I take care of my baby now. I felt very tired physically and mentally, to do all the household work and care of the baby at the same time.
It is a big problem now!

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la5711 寫道:
大學時讀邊科ga, 你可以留意下有無Freelance啱你做.
我試過3個情況:
1. 工人湊, 出外工作(約16K)---勁掛心,囝囝又湊到呆呆地咁
2. 唔請工人, 自己湊---超辛苦
3. 請工人, 做Freelance(7-8K)---最開心, 囝囝又乖又醒

由囝囝9個月起, 我就係第3種情況. 家務俾晒工人做, 我陪囝囝玩,看書等. 他睡覺時我可以做Freelance, 同就業市場有番d聯繫, 又夠我自己開支.
現在無返工咁倦. 返工個陣, 到禮拜六日, 雖然好想同囝囝出街, 但通常都因為太倦, 落樓下公園就算. 而家就可以帶到去遠些, 多些地方law.

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做Freelance最重要係人事網絡和口碑, 你試下向舊同事/同學/朋友探下口風. 我的情況係舊同學見我得閒, 佢又忙到死, 佢就分d工作俾我. 慢慢叫做有d口碑, 就多左其他人搵我.
經過半年左右, 就開始穩定下來.
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hin&ho_mami 寫道:
Hi la5711,

我本人都是大學畢業，做了九年OL之後辭職回家做全職媽咪，有個印傭幫手做家務，我都想做freelance但完全無idea做什麼好，請問你介唔介意提點

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la5711,

So what are you actually doing for freelance?

la5711 寫道:
做Freelance最重要係人事網絡和口碑, 你試下向舊同事/同學/朋友探下口風. 我的情況係舊同學見我得閒, 佢又忙到死, 佢就分d工作俾我. 慢慢叫做有d口碑, 就多左其他人搵我.
經過半年左右, 就開始穩定下來.

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我剛讀完碩士就有BB啦, 而家已經做左Full Time 媽咪３年多啦．囡囡９月就讀k1啦.

dora ma

:lalala: :mrgreen: :-| :wink:

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I am quite agree with what you saiid. But I can say you admire to your friends earn more $$ and have high position but your friend may be admire you to have free time (although not much) to do your work and receive less pressure than working. This is what my EQ thinking. Surely I am quite happy to stay with my kid and teach her many many things.

dora ma

KP_128 寫道:
Hello everyone,
it is good to see so many "full-time mother-mate".
being a FT mum for almost 2 yrs, what i can tell is "mother" is the toughest job/mission in the world.

Honestly speaking, seeing babies grow is the happiest reward, but I do have some indifferent moments. eg. when you see your old school mate stepping upper and upper, or you see even your junior staff is now sitting in the same position as your latest one...... all these make me feel down for sometimes.

To keep myself up all the times is to remind myself that my babies need me more than any other one does.

regarding the financial side, of course, it will be a big impact on the housewhole income when we are not working, but if your hubby can support the basic housewhole spending and with certain emergency money, I guess, money is no more big deal.

let's look for the best.

:lalala: :mrgreen: :-| :wink:

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其實大學生全職媽媽都仲有好多嘢要跟個女一齊學!
I am learning piano and mandarin with my girl. And I always need to consult dictionary while teaching her. K2, K3 D english vocabulary 好深。
But I am the only full time mum among my high school and university peers.

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dora ma,
我好d, 我就讀完mba, 仲可以搵幾年錢, 至返屋企湊女
我女都係9月讀k1, 大家一齊努力, 又係另一個stage 喇

all,
我好proud of 見到個女成長
我可以好大聲講
阿女所有...真係...所有第一次我都0係佢身邊發生
呢d 真係無價寶, 我當然好開心, 老公比呢個機會我啦

當年我話工人唔掂, 話唔做, 老細比我停薪留職2個月搵工人
d fd 個個話不如try下當ftm, 睇下習唔習慣先啦
我就試一個月, ok 打個電話返去resign
錢又唔洗補, 又唔洗返多一個月, 幾正呀

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wjazzw 寫道:
la5711,

So what are you actually doing for freelance?

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so glad to see this topic . I graduate from HKU and since then have tried different kinds of jobs. I have been teaching for the past 6 years . I got married two years ago and recently try to get pregnant.

Six months ago, I quitted my teaching job as I cannot stand the education system anymore. most important, as what most of u mentioned, I want to get back my own life and have time for family. I have been serving other families for the past 6 years and I found that I could not do much to them becos of the system.

i do have financial burden after quitting my job. I am grateful to my mom-in-law who brought to me a business opportunity. Now, my own mother, my husband (he still has a full time job), and my parents in law are all working towards the same dream, same goal in this business. For the time being, i may not earn as much as the past, (but the potential income and reward is great ) but I live much much more happily and healthily. just hope that I can get pregnant asap.

Hope taht I can share with you guys here even I am not yet a mom.