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複式洋房

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發表於 10-1-4 15:49 |只看該作者
The maid has been work for me five months. Recently, she always shows blackface to my mother & my daughter. When I am there, she turns to another smiling face.
Any mon have such experience ? Can you share with me how to handle wisely in this situation ?

Many thanks


大宅

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發表於 10-1-4 15:55 |只看該作者
你好聲好氣問下佢當關心咁話婆婆見你到好似面色唔係幾好, 問佢係咪唔舒服. 等佢知道婆婆會向你打報告避忌下.


複式洋房

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發表於 10-1-4 16:11 |只看該作者
Thanks. I had asked her whether she is sick or anything wrong with her family because 婆婆 found you are 心情唔係幾好. She said "no", nothing goes wrong.
But, once I go work, she treat them with blackface and do not speak to them.

I guess may be she get more and more contact & friends here in Hong Kong. And, now don't want my mum to be there with her.

I can't allow her to treat my mum & my child like this. I respect her and she needs to respect all my family members as well.

What can I do ? Thanks


原帖由 TINGTINGLEUNG 於 10-1-4 15:55 發表
你好聲好氣問下佢當關心咁話婆婆見你到好似面色唔係幾好, 問佢係咪唔舒服. 等佢知道婆婆會向你打報告避忌下.


大宅

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發表於 10-1-4 16:29 |只看該作者
既然已經好言問過佢, 再係咁只有直接同佢講唔可以對婆婆同女女咁既態度. 你要佢改善佢對婆婆的態度, 你同佢講婆婆係我媽咪, 你對佢態度唔好等於對我態度唔好. 同佢照下肺睇下有冇得救.

[ 本帖最後由 TINGTINGLEUNG 於 10-1-4 16:30 編輯 ]


複式洋房

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發表於 10-1-4 16:38 |只看該作者
Thanks for your advice.

This is my first time I hire a maid. Really don't expect the maid will be like this even though you treat her well. My mon knows she like to drink coffee and buy her coffee, know she did not have much winter clothes and give her / buy her some. Now, in return, she treat my mon like that, I really can't let it be. My mon also feels angry for that.

So, want to ask for help here and learn from those experienced mon to see what I should do if the maid is like this.

I will call agent to see if they can help as well.


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發表於 10-1-4 17:28 |只看該作者
我屋企都有一個黑面神,但我煮黑面嘅廚藝比佢更高,呢d人要一曰到黑都要比個嚴肅樣佢睇,好似我老細咁對我,佢哋就知發生乜事,記住唔洗笑住同佢講,但要嚴肅but 唔好閙,叫佢做嘢時用吩咐嘅態度,亦都唔洗entertain 佢,日子耐咗佢就會知道邊個出糧比佢。個個都犯賤。昨晚片完佢,但係有point嘅,今日變咗一隻死狗及蜘蛛俠lu,(擒來擒去抹嘢)


大宅

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發表於 10-1-4 17:38 |只看該作者
都係架, 你對佢好d佢就認為應份. 所以我覺得唔使對佢地太好, 一般老細同員工關係便ok. 千祈唔好放任何感情係個工人度.


複式洋房

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8#
發表於 10-1-4 17:43 |只看該作者
出糧比佢, 但態度咁差對我mom and child.
實在係好激氣
原來要咁.....


男爵府

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9#
發表於 10-1-4 18:05 |只看該作者
我就會當出糧時一次過訓示佢先比cheque佢.

我會同佢講我媽唔鐘意人黑面, 希望下次出糧前唔要再聽到佢同我投訴呢個問題


複式洋房

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10#
發表於 10-1-4 18:37 |只看該作者
對的, 當我出糧時,一定要過訓示佢先比cheque佢 !

if no improvement, 可以點做 ?


男爵府

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11#
發表於 10-1-4 19:10 |只看該作者
咁你真係要諗下佢除左黑面, 仲有咩係你唔鐘意. 如果比較過係無咩可取, 你就要揾定replacement

如果佢地係care份工, 唔會無少少improvement. otherwise, 一定係博炒. 咁就叠埋心水揾過個


珍珠宮

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發表於 10-1-4 23:18 |只看該作者
樓主~

我問返你一個問題吖~ 你有冇blackface對工人架? 冇? 咁你要多d練習下啦~ 等佢知邊個先有資格blackface~~


珍珠宮

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13#
發表於 10-1-5 01:26 |只看該作者
無錯,等佢地知邊個先係主人!! d工人我本身對佢好好既,不過佢地通常犯賤,對佢好無用既,你好時,佢只會越衰,所以我唔會再對佢地好!!
原帖由 Siuchoi 於 2010-1-4 23:18 發表
樓主~

我問返你一個問題吖~ 你有冇blackface對工人架? 冇? 咁你要多d練習下啦~ 等佢知邊個先有資格blackface~~


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