The maid has been work for me five months. Recently, she always shows blackface to my mother & my daughter. When I am there, she turns to another smiling face.
Any mon have such experience ? Can you share with me how to handle wisely in this situation ?
Thanks. I had asked her whether she is sick or anything wrong with her family because 婆婆 found you are 心情唔係幾好. She said "no", nothing goes wrong.
But, once I go work, she treat them with blackface and do not speak to them.
I guess may be she get more and more contact & friends here in Hong Kong. And, now don't want my mum to be there with her.
I can't allow her to treat my mum & my child like this. I respect her and she needs to respect all my family members as well.
This is my first time I hire a maid. Really don't expect the maid will be like this even though you treat her well. My mon knows she like to drink coffee and buy her coffee, know she did not have much winter clothes and give her / buy her some. Now, in return, she treat my mon like that, I really can't let it be. My mon also feels angry for that.
So, want to ask for help here and learn from those experienced mon to see what I should do if the maid is like this.
I will call agent to see if they can help as well.