I totally agree. All guys are too soft.
I used to be good to the maid, but talk back, bad temper, freak out, and never say sorry and repeat her mistakes over the four years already made me very disappointed. I used to give christmas money for her to buy something for herself, and CNY too. For the last 2 years, forget, I refused to do that unless my Husband told me too. However, he always tell me to do it.