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發表於 09-1-17 18:32 |只看該作者

我同樓主的情況好似,我身同感受

我同6299住的,囡囡現在才一個半月大,99又係好錫bb,但成日唔俾我抱,要同99搶,99又唔俾我餵人奶(話我唔夠奶),結果唯一親子時間都無,我諗可能係自己少氣,但可能我抱得少,又可能我抱得唔好,我一抱bb就喊,6299就即搶,我本來真係有dd擔心放完產假返工後會點?現在睇咗大家意見,心情好了!

原帖由 jj032008 於 09-1-15 11:11 發表
囡囡10個月，一直都係99湊，我放工放得夜，要8點幾9點先回家，食完飯同囡囡玩一陣，囡囡10點要訓覺。我每日只對住佢一個鐘，99仲要在旁擾擾攘攘，又要同我爭抱，我真係好唔鐘意，佢都抱左成日啦!

不過我99其實好鍚囡囡，我知囡囡都好鐘 ...

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pinkpong

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發表於 09-1-17 19:22 |只看該作者

好明白樓主嘅委屈...

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發表於 09-1-19 13:18 |只看該作者

多謝大家既回應呀!

哈哈!前幾日99又係咁問囡囡，囡囡要佢抱，佢又唔抱，攪到囡囡大喊，佢就問囡囡點解喊，老公就講左話佢唔問咪唔喊囉，跟住99好冇引走左，幾日都冇再問過。

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發表於 09-1-19 13:29 |只看該作者

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發表於 09-1-19 14:15 |只看該作者

其實我個CASE又係差唔多, 99成日都要攬住阿B, 又成日麻麻前麻麻後, 攪到阿B而家一喊就叫麻麻, 我聽到個心好唔舒服, 平時夜晚LAST嗰餐奶我想餵阿B佢都要同我爭, 佢都湊左成日啦, 咁都唔識做, 99逄我放假佢就休息, 攪到阿B唔跟我, 我一抱佢就喊, 就連工人都攪唔掂, 所以攪到我而家好討厭我99, 希望佢快D返工喇, 再對住佢我就無晒MOOD~~

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發表於 09-1-20 12:04 |只看該作者

d99成日都係咁,我個仔細時都係咁,一日抱到黑,明明瞓係床仔都要抱返起身. 搞到個仔好難凑,又鍾意示下威咁,到bb大d啦,你会覺得仲煩,因為開始有管教上的衝突,99会縱到佢個孫是非不分,亂發脾氣果時就後悔莫及....我而家個仔讀小學勒,我都唔知花左幾多efforts去教佢....但係佢嫲嫲一大駕光臨,佢就即刻曳好多!
總之,一有時間就要爭取多d同bb相處,佢大大下一定是親阿媽多d.

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發表於 09-1-20 12:13 |只看該作者

D milk milk always like this~ if bb want to hug her more than mother, she will feel she is important!

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發表於 09-1-21 02:06 |只看該作者

我個99都係咁, 重要佢係房(我見唔到佢), 我係廳, 佢好似做電台咁, 不停大聲描述: bb錫麻麻呀, 真係乖..bb你餵麻麻食嘢呀..要麻麻抱呀之類...總之係勁白痴.:;pppp:

樓主, 你唔駛咁擔心, 因你bb遲d大d(約1yr多d)就會喜歡同你玩...因為始終老人家係唔多識同bb玩...講嚟講去都係果幾句. 同埋bb開始識分親疏,知道媽媽係最close...我個仔而家就快2yrs, 有一段時間我同c6很忙, 日日都10點先返家, 佢會等我哋返嚟同我哋玩. 雖然c6係最少時間陪佢, 但c6見親bb就同佢玩得好開心又傾計咁, bb而家最親近就係c6, 我都係第2咋

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發表於 09-1-21 23:49 |只看該作者

maymay430,

my 99 is similar... 極度唔識做.... everytime, she will finish her meal so quickly that almost not 禮貌 at all... and then 抱bb!!

even wanna 贊佢 teach BB this and that... 咁佢都開心d... but really贊唔落 at all....

好討厭!!

原帖由 maymay430 於 09-1-15 13:05 發表
其實我99同樓主個99一樣，而且更甚，如果bb話要麻麻抱，仲會話：佢
唔要你呀．９９真係好討厭．

我亦都是試過用123!@#所講的方法，當時飲緊茶，我叫９９食野啦，因為佢真係未食野，全程抱住bb，佢居然話佢可以唔食野．

所以我對住９９通常都係黑面，因 ...

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eshiro

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發表於 09-1-21 23:52 |只看該作者

jj032008,

you should go out with your daughter when you are on holiday lar... don't stay home while your 99 is around, too mar...

it's very importnat to have private time with your girl ......................

原帖由 jj032008 於 09-1-15 15:07 發表

其實我真係唔係好識同bb玩，action song點樣玩。

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發表於 09-1-23 15:52 |只看該作者

jj032008: i can understand your feeling. my 99 also takes care of my one year old as i need to work. i think it is important for you to maintain a good relationship with your 99. try to have more private time with your daughter, and if you really cannot stand it, ask your hubby to talk to your 99.

but i tend to think that you maybe a bit sensitive, try to think positive, and keep high EQ! otherwise, you won't be happy, and will ruin your relationship with your 99.

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發表於 09-1-23 18:37 |只看該作者

原帖由 eshiro 於 09-1-21 23:49 發表
maymay430,

my 99 is similar... 極度唔識做.... everytime, she will finish her meal so quickly that almost not 禮貌 at all... and then 抱bb!!

我99都係咁. 每晚食飯, 我們都把BB放在BB椅, 時不時比幾粒飯佢趙下, 有時見我們食的東西, 佢無得食就嘈. 99會以高速食完飯, 手又不洗, 咀又無抺, 就同bb講: [哦~~~麻麻抱, 麻麻錫晒, 唔好理佢地, 佢地個個虾你, 唔好同佢地坐] 做晒動作, 用隻手來掦我添! 一路推走bb, 一路講, 但佢又唔識放番bb出來. 我好唔想幫佢整, 但又唔得. 佢仲不知幾得意洋洋, 個樣實在太討厭!

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發表於 09-1-24 11:08 |只看該作者

原帖由 vvnip 於 09-1-23 18:37 發表

[哦~~~麻麻抱, 麻麻錫晒, 唔好理佢地, 佢地個個虾你, 唔好同佢地坐]

係呀! 我99又係鍾意講d咁嘢:無人理你呀!佢地唔比你食呀!虾你呀!陰公lor,阿麻錫返,麻麻抱.........
真係好鬼討厭.

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發表於 09-1-24 11:31 |只看該作者

原帖由 eshiro 於 09-1-21 23:52 發表
jj032008,

you should go out with your daughter when you are on holiday lar... don't stay home while your 99 is around, too mar...

it's very importnat to have private time with your girl ........ ...

自從上次老公話完佢之後，我同個囡多左好多私人時間，佢有時行過只係望下都冇出聲，佢唔出聲個囡基本上見到都唔會理佢。

出街有呀，我放親假都一定同佢出去行下，近近地樓下公園都好，可惜我假期唔多。

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發表於 09-1-24 11:34 |只看該作者

原帖由 jas_choi 於 09-1-23 15:52 發表
jj032008: i can understand your feeling. my 99 also takes care of my one year old as i need to work. i think it is important for you to maintain a good relationship with your 99. try to have more p ...

yes﹐或者我真係too sensitive啦，不過囡囡出世之後我eq已經好左好多。

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發表於 09-1-24 11:37 |只看該作者

睇完你地既回應先發現，原來我99已經好好。

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