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[2008年] 兩個小朋友的mama, 分享下心得 [複製鏈接]

JOANHUI

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我大仔0612, 剛16個月, 與妹妹相差13個月. 兩個都是bb, 有時不知如何教大仔妹妹的存在?

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我大仔已家就黎20個月啦, 佢都好錫錫妹妹喎.

原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-4-8 19:10 發表
我大仔0612, 剛16個月, 與妹妹相差13個月. 兩個都是bb, 有時不知如何教大仔妹妹的存在?

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唔洗特登教, 多d將佢地擺埋一齊, 係成長過程中有大家嘅參與, 自然就知道對方存在啦......我諗....

原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-4-8 19:10 發表
我大仔0612, 剛16個月, 與妹妹相差13個月. 兩個都是bb, 有時不知如何教大仔妹妹的存在?

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2個女媽咪

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我個大女今年七歲, 勁鍚個妹, 除咗換片, 嘜都識做, 直情有咗一個好幫手

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我個女8age都好錫bb

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我大女係0610, 同個細佬差15個月..

佢當個細佬係佢個玩具咁, 成日kiss kiss and hug hug細佬..不過佢自己鍾意既野 (e.g. 婆婆, 床仔)就唔俾細佬掂....真唔知好'lau'定好笑

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你可以同佢講多d and 兩個多d 一齊玩

哥哥會明白, 只不過佢咁細唔識用言語去表達

原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-4-8 19:10 發表
我大仔0612, 剛16個月, 與妹妹相差13個月. 兩個都是bb, 有時不知如何教大仔妹妹的存在?

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大仔2歲8個月,佢鐘意時(心情好)好錫細佬,乜野都可以比細佬,但唔鐘意時就會咬細佬,傷害細佬,訓醒見到我抱住細佬餵奶,或見到人地讚細佬,大仔會發大老脾!仲有佢的情緒好波動!

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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原文章由 bbpooh 於 08-4-9 09:17 發表
大仔2歲8個月,佢鐘意時(心情好)好錫細佬,乜野都可以比細佬,但唔鐘意時就會咬細佬,傷害細佬,訓醒見到我抱住細佬餵奶,或見到人地讚細佬,大仔會發大老脾!仲有佢的情緒好波動! ...

Tim is now more than 3.5 years old. On one hand, he wants Nathan to grow faster that he can play with him. On the other hand, he is jealous all the time, esp., when I bf Nathan. I think he feels bad that he needs to sleep with my maid now and Nathan is staying with us in our room.

The situation now is better than that a few months ago. YEt, he can still be emotional. HE always say '媽咪點解你而家唔照顧我嘅？ BUt actually, I take care of him most of the time: I brush teeth with him morning and night/ having breakfast with him/ taking bath for him/ having dinner with him/ playing with him/ eating fruits with him/ accompanying him to sleep every night...

So, very tiring as I need to go to work
Yes ar, he's more emotional than before after Nathan was born

[ 本文章最後由 FlorashleyTim 於 08-4-9 09:38 編輯 ]

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我個女就黎14歲,佢都係勁鍚細佬,
要佢餵奶及換片佢就唔掂喇,
同細佬傾計就得

不過阿女都算幫到我手,佢可以幫我睇睇bb,
等我做家務,又有時佢幫我做家務

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i absolutely agree w/yr pts of view. being a working mom, taking care of 2 young bbs are really tired (not just care their physical but also psychological development..) no matter how busy i am, i will try to reach hm b4 9pm, so i can read bks w/him b4 he sleeps. after he sleeps, i take bath for mui mui and feed (just want to be fair for 2 kids)

guo guo doesn't know how to play w/mui mui at this age, but for sure, they will be gd fds/ companions if c6 & i handle their relationships well. when guo guo was abt 7-8 mths old, i felt he knew the existence of mui mui (we always held his little hands to touch my tummy, telling him mui mui was inside). most of the time, he needed him to carry even the helper who had long hours with him couldn't settle him down....

when mui mui was born, he didn't accept her, trying to push her away if we put them together. he is very emotional when i am carrying mui mui. am i right if i passed mui mui to sbd and fulfil bryan's needs? is that unfair to mui mui? c6 said i am not fair to the bb girl?

原文章由 FlorashleyTim 於 08-4-9 09:37 發表

Tim is now more than 3.5 years old. On one hand, he wants Nathan to grow faster that he can play with him. On the other hand, he is jealous all the time, esp., when I bf Nathan. I think he feels ...

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我個大女同細佬相差23個月,
佢成日好粗魯咁hug & kiss細佬,
搞到細佬成日喊

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原文章由 Josing 於 08-4-9 17:35 發表
我個大女同細佬相差23個月,
佢成日好粗魯咁hug & kiss細佬,
搞到細佬成日喊

我個大女[0609]同細佬[0801]相差16個月,
佢成日好粗魯咁hug & kiss

細佬,
搞到細佬成日喊

入来参观,CHERRY & NERO'PHOTOS
http://www.flickr.com/photos/24745234@N03/sets/72157604342655444/

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兩個小朋友的mama, 分享下心得

我個仔25個月, 而妹妹只有3個月, 初初亞仔表現得好錫個妹, 不過錫錫吓就會打妹妹

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我個大B與細B相差19個月，哥哥簡直勁錫弟弟，自己心愛的玩具都給弟弟，成日kiss弟弟，又幫他掃風，每朝起床便不段叫弟弟BB，有時和他傾電話，第一句竟然是BB，現在反而是我呷弟弟醋:;pppp: 。

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我個仔0411，細女出世後大仔行為開始倒退，去廁所都要人陪同賴尿，我同佢妹妹3個人好努力建立關係，依家哥哥好接受妹妹，同好照顧妹妹。妹妹喊佢會主動幫我走去睇下妹妹發生咩事。

http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/chansukwai/

http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!gQBYC8iRGBa3394TZMu8zBqW

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hello,
我大仔剛剛3歲, 而細女剛4個月. 初時都驚仔仔呷醋, 點知妹妹出世後發現佢勁啺妹妹, 成日攬住妹妹. 有次重好笑, 我呀嫂抱住妹妹, 佢以為我呀嫂抱走妹妹, 好可憐地喊住叫妹妹, 妹妹. 所以, 我覺得小朋友啺唔啺弟妹, 都同小朋友本身性格有關的. 不過後天的教導也很重要. 最重要的是公平, 不好比小朋友覺得父母啺細唔啺大 (需然可能真的會偏心, 但不要讓小朋友感受到).
大家一同努力學習.

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我個女8歲半,勁錫細妹,最鍾意抱住佢坐,除咗餵奶同換片,樣樣都幫得手

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我大囡就黎4歲...細囡就4個月,
家姐好錫佢...不過..成日都好想抱妹妹,
我同妹妹玩乜,佢都想學...
不過,就唔識就力..會整喊妹妹..

但係都好得意架..妹妹好鍾意家姐..
成日都望住家姐笑...
一聽到家姐把聲就周圍搵家姐...

希望佢地兩姊妹以後既感情都係咁好就好喇..

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我大囡同細女情形都差不多,不過大嘅5歲半,細嘅3個半月

原文章由 雪瑩媽咪 於 08-5-7 13:43 發表
我大囡就黎4歲...細囡就4個月,
家姐好錫佢...不過..成日都好想抱妹妹,
我同妹妹玩乜,佢都想學...
不過,就唔識就力..會整喊妹妹..

但係都好得意架..妹妹好鍾意家姐..
成日都望住家姐笑...
一聽到家姐把聲就周圍搵家 ...