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上星期我姐夫入左醫院, 由於佢CANCER可能已擴散到嚥喉, 所以進食十分困難, 必須兩個人帮他才可以完成(一個給他稀粥, 一個把抺走從他口中溜出的食物.
Last sunday when my maid come back after hoilday, I told her my uncle in the hopital, and I want she could help me to feed my uncle (together with my uncle's sister) for lunch because Tuesday I need to work. I told her, you can reject my request because this is not your duty job. She say no problem and she could do it . Monday I with her together go to hospital and show to her how to feed my uncle. Tuesday she call me after hospital and report to me how much my uncle ate and tell me every thing is okey, In the night time I ask her again, Do you mind go to hospital to feed my uncle, she still say, no problem but she had 驚 when she by lift alone. and I told her if anytime you feel tire please let me know then you no need to go hospital, she say okey la, then I say " if ".
Wensday my son's teacher complain. When I go back my home I 罵 my son, but he sometime to watch TV, so I off the TV, (at that moment my maid is watch TV. She often watch TV before cooking), then she go back to kitchen, and playing sms. she sit in a chair, 除左拖鞋, 雙腳撐住廚櫃門, then I told her " The feet is dirty can not touch cupboard, I think she unhappy, Because when she 煎魚, i ask her to fried a more time. she say, you go out la. then i say the last time the fish is too soft. she do not give me any feedback.
Next day the doctor consider to make 胃喉 for my uncle, but we are waiting for confirm from the doctor, I told my maid i would call her before 10:30, because if she go to hospital she need go out before 10:45, if the doctor make胃喉 she no need go to feed my uncle. At 10:10 I do not receive any information from hospital, so I call my maid go to hospital at 10:45, she say Okey, at 10:50 she call me and ask: I could not go to hospital is Ok or not' then I deadair 5 sec. why. she say, she 好驚. then i say OKey. she suddenly said that I can not arrange any one to replace. But I am lucky, my uncle's sister ask doctor the maid can not come and she can not feed my uncle by alone, then the document make 胃喉.
At night when I go home and call my mother talking about my uncle, after that, she say, how about your uncle, i say ok, but if you do not want to go, you need to tell me in Wensday night or next day morning. This is extra job, not is your duty job, I do not mind you help or not, But at last moment you tell me could not want to go, how to arrange. then 我再沒有跟她說話, 平時我地會傾d閑計.
其實我工人唔鍾意比人話, 除左c6, 每次話佢都會串番你, 不過之後會跟你意思做,
好唔開心, 前兩個月佢過屋企人入醫院, 問我借3,000, 我都無托佢手爭. 點解唔可以張比己, 咁玩我.

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發表於 08-5-16 16:16 |只看該作者

你要記住, 佢只係你既 helper, 唔係你既 friend, 親戚, 佢地既心思同我地唔同, 因為佢地係打工仔既心態, 而且你對佢太寬鬆啦, 所以佢諸多事實。

forget it la~~

最緊要係你姐夫冇事, god bless him la

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PINKAVA

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bk就係比人呻既地方, 有咩就上黎呻下啦.

工人係有唔岩, 不過嬲都無用, 下次工人有咩要求就唔好對佢 say yes就算, 既然佢要"各安本份",你咪又盡番你做太太既責任督促佢多d.

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hinhinmummy

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發表於 08-5-16 16:30 |只看該作者

工人是工人, 自己對佢好, 就吾好望有回報, 佢地吾會將心比心

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PansyMummy

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醒目開學勳章

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發表於 08-5-16 16:40 |只看該作者

唉 ! 每個工人都係咁啦, 唔好唔開心呀, 我個工人都係唔知足, 佢生日我送咗隻手表俾佢, 点知佢就同我個女話唔鍾意, 因為唔係黑色或白色喎:;pppp: :;pppp: :;pppp:

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發表於 08-5-16 16:45 |只看該作者

依到有地方呻下, 重有人回應下, 真係唔錯, 因為我同C6講佢會覺得我好煩

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hinhinmummy

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發表於 08-5-16 16:59 |只看該作者

原文章由 PansyMummy 於 08-5-16 16:40 發表
唉 ! 每個工人都係咁啦, 唔好唔開心呀, 我個工人都係唔知足, 佢生日我送咗隻手表俾佢, 点知佢就同我個女話唔鍾意, 因為唔係黑色或白色喎:;pppp: :;pppp: :;pppp: ...

唉, 你都係手錶, 我係mobile 呀, 果次佢完約反歸, 我諗住過去兩年做得幾好, 又鍚我個仔, 於是送部全新'無得撈'mobile 比佢, 點知佢吾like, 話吾係'落機呀'wor

之後, 就知道, 隨心, 總之盡左自己既本份, 不求回報, 過到自己果一關就算

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060228

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我幫妳打佢,嗱!唔好報警呀~

打妳個C人頭打到妳有氣冇定頭

打妳個C人咀等妳有口都口嗅

執著帶來痛苦、學習放下煩惱

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原文章由 060228 於 08-5-16 17:02 發表
我幫妳打佢,嗱!唔好報警呀~

打妳個C人頭打到妳有氣冇定頭
打妳個C人咀等妳有口都口嗅

睇到你既回應, 忍唔住笑出黎, 舒服曬

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回覆 #3 hinhinmummy 的文章

我工人月初生日 , 由於 6 個月內 , 表現不太好 , 又不太差 , 所以個晚去美心快餐食算了 ,
起碼叫做出街吃 , 又不用佢洗 ,又不用佢煮

又可比佢自已撰吃什麼 , 最係幾十元 , 佢叫左唔食都唔肉呎

之后買個蛋糕 , 50 元 , 所以無幾 , 一點心意而已 , 佢喜唔喜歡我都唔 care , 最后佢都有 say thank you

所以不用對工人太好 , 適可而止 , 大家都舒服 , 因為之前買過件 JACKET 比佢 (幾十元) , 佢都不太願穿 , 當時馬上明白 , 真的不用為她想太多 , 很無謂 , 她交到貨 , 準時回家 , 不講電話 , 不借錢便行

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FA8866

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發表於 08-5-16 21:53 |只看該作者

車.人.
唔好唔開心啦,不如阿Q d諗,佢都去左醫院2日啦,可能佢真係好驚呢.

仲好過有d工人黑口黑面一句"得"埋黎 say no 啦.
咁諗會唔會舒服d??

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發表於 08-5-16 22:40 |只看該作者

車人,

你個係賓定印呀? 我第一個印又係好細膽, 佢同我講當無人在家時佢會好驚, 夜晚都唔敢訓住. 佢係驚到我地全家去旅行時, 寧願去我奶奶屋企住, 都唔肯自己一個在家他他條條架! 不過佢做野就very good 架喎.

所以你個工人可能真係好驚呢, 你都知醫院幾多鬼古架啦!

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