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尋晚我同Ｃ６意見不合，無鬧交，但我好唔開心，諗無可諗，覺得無人勸得佢掂，唔知點算好！就打電話俾我２伯（平時無乜兩句！），同佢講哂，仲講到喊！

我２伯即刻話上嚟我屋企，我話個Ｃ６話唔返屋企（意思係Ｃ６唔係屋企，佢上嚟都無用，又唔係好方便！），但係佢話佢上嚟同ＢＢ玩，最後都上咗嚟，陪我傾計，幫我揍Ｂ，幫ＢＢ沖涼同埋餵飯俾ＢＢ，仲同ＢＢ玩，陪到我十二點幾佢先走！但佢係5:00AM返工架！

我真係好感動！

其間我同佢講Ｃ６呢幾個月收入唔多，俾唔到錢９９，我有同９９講，我９９都ＯＫ，我２伯就講，屋企（我６２、９９屋企）唔使我擔心，佢會擔起哂，叫我唔使擔心咁多，我真係覺得佢超好，我覺得我好幸福呀！

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真係恭喜你有個咁好既2伯呀! 我C6嗰邊我諗都唔會諗囉!~

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原文章由 446948 於 08-10-16 00:13 發表
真係恭喜你有個咁好既2伯呀! 我C6嗰邊我諗都唔會諗囉!~

多謝你！

我其實搵過我媽咪勸我Ｃ６，又搵過我細佬，但都搞我Ｃ６唔掂，佢係獅子座，好固執！

我諗無可諗，覺得佢２哥同佢喺同一環境、家庭下成長，應該講得佢掂掛！起碼如果我Ｃ６唔返屋企，返９９度，咁都有佢２哥話佢、鬧佢、趕佢返嚟我屋企呀！

而２伯對我咁好真係我意料之外架！

我真係好開心！

其實咁多年都無乜同佢食飯或者一齊玩，我決定以後有乜節目都會問埋佢去唔去！

佢唔止對我好，對我仔女都好好，咁我仔係同我Ｃ６生既，佢對我仔好就必然啦，但我大女係同我EX生既，過年佢都會封利是俾我女女，對女女都好好，佢未結婚架！

我仔仔滿月佢封咗三千蚊利是俾我，仔仔一歲生日就佢同９９都每人封咗五百大洋俾我，真係好好架！

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我C6大佬唔搵我C6著數已經謝天謝地lu..

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原文章由 kkttssng 於 08-10-16 09:52 發表
我C6大佬唔搵我C6著數已經謝天謝地lu..

同意，我c6既大佬 or 佢既屋企人唔會好似吸血鬼咁黎吸我地d錢，我已經開心到喊！

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我個大伯又對我老公好好, 婚前過時過節都會封大利是俾我老公, 婚後有時都會俾佢. 不過我叫我老公千萬唔好收. 因為佢自己都有老婆仔女要養..所以我老公對佢大哥感情好好. 但同佢家姐就一般..

我地要供樓, 99同大伯都叫我地唔好交家用.供晒先算, 話6299有佢地養都ok..我爸爸媽媽又係. 不過由今個月開始. 我們都係俾反家用, 一邊2000, 雖然唔多, 但係都係個心意..

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Lucky your ２伯未結婚....... Remember to tell your ２伯 don't get marry. If not, I am sure there will be 1 more 不幸 sister here. It is because her husband need to 擔起哂 2 families, his family + his parents' family. It is because his brother (your husband) tell him that they 幾個月收入唔多，俾唔到錢９９. Therefore, ２伯就講，屋企（我６２、９９屋企）唔使我擔心，佢會擔起哂 2 families........ His brother's wife always 搵大佬著數.....似吸血鬼咁黎吸２伯d錢 !!!

I think all sons/daughters should share their parent's expenses!

原文章由 honeybear0207 於 08-10-16 00:11 發表
尋晚我同Ｃ６意見不合，無鬧交，但我好唔開心，諗無可諗，覺得無人勸得佢掂，唔知點算好！就打電話俾我２伯（平時無乜兩句！），同佢講哂，仲講到喊！

我２伯即刻話上嚟我屋企，我話個Ｃ６話唔返屋企（意思係Ｃ６唔係屋企，佢上嚟都無用，又唔係好方便！），但係佢話佢上嚟 ...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-16 10:47 發表
Lucky your ２伯未結婚....... Remember to tell your ２伯 don't get marry. If not, I am sure there will be 1 more 不幸 sister here. It is because her husband need to 擔起哂 2 families, his family + his par ...

你講得好似又幾有道理喎....

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-16 10:47 發表
Lucky your ２伯未結婚....... Remember to tell your ２伯 don't get marry. If not, I am sure there will be 1 more 不幸 sister here. It is because her husband need to 擔起哂 2 families, his family + his par ...

我諗你誤解咗囉！

我唔係特登同佢咁同佢講嚟屈佢錢，係真係呢幾個月有困難，而俾唔到，而２伯亦無俾多啲９９，只係俾正常咁多，我哋係講開我ｃ６呢期個月只係做散工俾唔到家用９９，因為我哋都有兩個仔女要養！

２伯係叫我哋唔使擔心９９佢哋，佢俾嗰份都搞得掂頭家咁既意思囉！

你唔好講到我係屈錢怪咁喎！

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Hope you 2 will take your resposibility for your 62, 99. And remember if 1 day, your husband have work and earn $, pay more to your 62 99.
You are lucky as you have a nice 99.

原文章由 honeybear0207 於 08-10-16 11:15 發表

我諗你誤解咗囉！

我唔係特登同佢咁同佢講嚟屈佢錢，係真係呢幾個月有困難，而俾唔到，而２伯亦無俾多啲９９，只係俾正常咁多，我哋係講開我ｃ６呢期個月只係做散工俾唔到家用９９，因為我哋都有兩個仔女要養！

２伯係叫我哋唔使擔心９９佢哋，佢俾嗰份 ...

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我哋不嬲都有俾，只係手緊先無俾幾個月，唔係不負責任！

唔通明明無都去借返嚟俾咩？

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你真係幸福呀!! 你2伯好好, 好羨慕呀, 甘你同你老公好番未呀??

我都有2個伯...<我老公哥哥>, 大果個都好好人, 亦願意幫手... 但2伯只會同奶奶講我地是非, 從來唔幫手, 仲驚你唔好添... 當年我老公返屋企announce 06年結婚, 佢竟然同我老公講"你揀定左啦?? 係佢啦??" 正一賤人

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我有個朋友同佢老公離左婚.
原因係個男人總係覺得佢二哥蛤佢(咁橋你又係二伯). 個男人成日話有壓力. 個女婆又叻過佢. 佢本身搵錢都ok, 但係老婆加了人工后, 又開始讀書, 佢就成日飲酒. 個個都話佢唔啱, 個阿哥話佢都無用.

我想講, 如果你老公受, 我恭喜你. 因為你2伯真係好好人.

如果你老公現在的唔受依一套, 希望你會停! 因為唔係個個男人都衰得起, 個老婆仲要係同佢d兄弟訴苦.

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多謝！

我同老公算係好番啦！其實都無鬧交，只係我叫佢唔好咁樣做某件事，佢話無呀！唔係呀！唔講啦！我就話我接受唔到，如果真係要咁，佢不如唔好返屋企，佢竟然話唔返啦咁！

我咪好嬲好傷心囉！

佢話係為我好，但佢咁做係令我好唔開心，只會每日都好擔心同提心吊膽，咁點解唔肯聽我意見呢？

唔聽都俾個好啲理由我呀！佢只係話無呀！唔係呀！唔講啦！

我諗到無哂符，咪向２伯求助囉！

其實ｃ６都無走到，只係喺屋企樓下坐，唔上樓，我２伯走時見到佢，就叫佢返上嚟！

我無理佢，自己出廳瞓！

第二日佢又好似無事咁嚟接我收工，佢每日都會接我！

咁我又同佢講，佢都係俾埋啲同樣既答覆我！

我無佢符，唯有當無事，但同佢講到明，如有再犯，我會揀離婚，我知係唔可以咁講，但我覺得同佢溝通唔到，唯有咁做！

希望佢可以企我角度睇事物！

原文章由 Melody_Che 於 08-10-16 11:45 發表
你真係幸福呀!! 你2伯好好, 好羨慕呀, 甘你同你老公好番未呀??

我都有2個伯..., 大果個都好好人, 亦願意幫手... 但2伯只會同奶奶講我地是非, 從來唔幫手, 仲驚你唔好添... 當年我老公返屋企announce 06年結婚, 佢竟 ...

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原文章由 alphabetagamma 於 08-10-16 12:03 發表
我有個朋友同佢老公離左婚.
原因係個男人總係覺得佢二哥蛤佢(咁橋你又係二伯). 個男人成日話有壓力. 個女婆又叻過佢. 佢本身搵錢都ok, 但係老婆加了人工后, 又開始讀書, 佢就成日飲酒. 個個都話佢唔啱, 個阿哥話佢 ...

其實我都唔想，我只想一返到屋企，一家大細開開心心，但我老公一日唔改，或唔俾真正既原因我，而繼續咁搞事，只會家不成家，我唯有向人求助，我唔想屈埋哂喺心入面呀！好辛苦！

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compare with my husband's brother, yours is not so 賤.

What my husband's brother did in the past 20 years:
His brother is 2 years younger than him (my husband). He always tell my 62, 99 that he had no $ to give living expenses for them. In the past 20 years, he paid for 1 month, and didn't pay for another 2 months. Therefore, my husband should 擔起哂 the hold families (another brother still studied in university at that moment). He used all his $ in the families. All his girl firends went away as he have no $ to get marry and built another family. When we got marry, I pay all the expensives. We need to buy / rent another flat as my husband's flat was given to his families to live. However, we need to pay everything for 2 flats. Therefore, we don't want to have any kids in the first few years. It is because we know that when we have kids, we cannot affort the living expenses for 2 families.
Some years later, his younger brother have stable income. He shares the living expenses of thier parents with my husband. Then, we decided to have kids. At that moment, my husband was already 40 years old!!! No one want to be a parent in that age. I think you are young. And you have 2 kids now. We also want to be a parent in your age (too old now). However, due to his other brother's selfish, we have no choice.

His brother (not the younger one) looks like your husband.
And my husband looks like your 2伯.
Therefore, remember to tell your 2伯 don't get marry and don't have any kids.

原文章由 Melody_Che 於 08-10-16 11:45 發表

你真係幸福呀!! 你2伯好好, 好羨慕呀, 甘你同你老公好番未呀??

我都有2個伯...<我老公哥哥>, 大果個都好好人, 亦願意幫手... 但2伯只會同奶奶講我地是非, 從來唔幫手, 仲驚你唔好添... 當年我老公返屋企announce 06年結婚, 佢竟然同我老公講"你揀定左啦?? 係佢啦??" 正一賤人
...

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唉, 你大伯無羅錢返屋企, 我果2伯先前賣完樓無錢, 返佢屋企問6299羅添啦, 仲話個孫都等6299養.... 唉, 成3十幾歲人, 個仔女都要老豆老媽養, 同d未成年一樣... 據我所知, 佢結婚後就無比家用屋企啦!!

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發表於 08-10-16 16:30 |只看該作者

你大伯真係好

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發表於 08-10-16 23:18 |只看該作者

首先，我認為我哋一啲都唔賤，我只係一時手緊，無能力俾９９，而唔係以後唔俾，我亦無要２伯俾埋我哋嗰份，只係９９就算無收到我哋份家用都影嚮不大！２伯亦只係俾佢自己平常俾開嗰份！

對於你打呢句：『compare with my husband's brother, yours is not so 賤』，我真係好反感！

仲有呢句：『Therefore, remember to tell your 2伯 don't get marry and don't have any kids.』我真係覺得好過份！我哋真係一時三刻有困難，我哋對６２、９９都好好，唔係好似你個叔仔咁！

唔通有困難都要死啲錢返嚟俾９９？如果佢真係好雖要，我問人借都借返嚟！

我覺得你係當咗我哋係你叔仔咁囉！

至於你哋年老先可以敢生小朋友，我只可以于以同情，而我既小朋友係我哋一手一腳養，無要過人既幫助，我生咗個仔１８日就返工，我係自己開鋪頭，每日都揍埋ｂｂ返工，一路揍，一路做生意，都無求過９９幫，我哋係自食其力，唔係靠痴！

只係呢幾個月我ｃ６際遇唔好，先會無俾家用啫！

請你唔好再咁講我！

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