You paid up your debt with your own savings, and he is mad with you? I don't think it is any of his business unless he thinks your money is his. This guy is ridiculous.
Girl, you are young with job and without kids. If you are not happy in your marriage and stressed out, just leave him.
he said when he choose to marry me he think of me as a sweet girl.Now that he found out im not a good girl and he starts to question himself why he married me in the first place
I would say he is a child, he told you the truth, he is regreted to get marry! I dont know he loves u or not when he proposed to you, but he loves himself is the most!
He is not telling any lies to you, he is very mean and not a gentleman, he wants his wife can fulfill all his expectations! You have pressure and be a shopping queen. This case he hasnt care your sick, your health! He just think you made a mistake and brought troubles to him!
You cannot hide this questions anymore, be a brave girl and face to him, solve this problem whatever is good new or bad new!