hi, I am searching for jobs too now. But when I have interviews, they seem a bit worry about I won't OT and not that aggressive anymore. So, at this moment, there is still no offer for me. Somehow it seems a bit difficult to get back to the market....
oh... i am a bit confused now. I just received an job offer and they need me to start working this Friday. It is such a rush. When I look at my son, I really don't want to work, but if I don't start working again, maybe it's too late to wait for few years. And few years later, I may be a low-paid worker. um..... when I think about ending the time of being a FTM, it's so sad...........