gilgil39 發表於 20-3-4 05:17
其實係咪響你字典裡,冇錯呢個字?
例如佢成日吾記唔得交電費,搞到要cut電,正常一般人會覺得大鑊,下次 ...
「響我字典裡」有個評估制度,以評估得出嘅分數排次序。先去做排在最首位嘅事。
每一件事(story) 分 value,effort,time and resource 三方面來評估。
value:成就呢一件事嘅價值係幾多,意思係有幾值得我去做,如果唔做,我究竟虧損得起幾多。
effort:做呢件事,我要花幾多資源,例如:時間,金錢,人力,物力,心思,IQ,EQ 去做。
time and resource:幾時要將呢件事做完,有幾多人可以判出去畀佢哋做,而不是非我做不可的。
過了time and resource 的限制後,會做個 retrospective : What went well? What went wrong? What would be done better in next round of given time and resource to do it.
如果用交電費, 打人工搵錢養家呢兩件事來做例子。我知我係簡單化個實際情況,只求把我個觀點與角度給解明。
value: 打工,受人錢財,就要替人消災解難。亞氏保加症嘅人通常都有一技之長來搵食。工係唔可以失去嘅情況下,我係一人搵錢擔起成幾個獨立開支的家,自然公司的工作的 value 係最高。
effort:冇走咱嘅 係whatever it take me to get the job done. After my job done, I will consider use whatever left over time and resource to get the 交電費 done.
If I don't have any time and resource left, at least I can delegate the 交電費 to my 前夫 to do it. If no one 交電費, cut 電嘅負面影響絕對冇我失業的負面影響大。我賺嘅錢虧得起畀罰款。我又唔使靠屋企有電來搵錢養家。沒有甚麼大不了的。
我份搵錢工,如果我唔做,我前夫做唔到。此乃非我做不可之事。
交電費,如果我唔做,我前夫都辦到。唔係非我做不可之事。
Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own ~ H. Jackson Brown