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本帖最後由 edith208 於 14-4-3 10:32 編輯

i have been working for more than 18 years and I have 3 kids. My youngest stays with my mum during weekdays and returns home with us during weekends and long school holidays. The two elder girls in primary school have a lot of homework. They have a lot of after school activities.

I don't hire any helpers. After school, picking up girls from interest classes, preparing and cooking dinner, housework, checking girls' homework is all my life. Luckily F6 students are on study leave. There is less marking. But the F1 class causes trouble from time to time. Very annoying, very naive.

The best thing is to see how students grow. It is very rewarding when they come to visit me after graduation.

Yet I am happy to be a working mum. I am no better than others in any aspect but I am blessed to have healthy kids and a loving husband, supportive parents and parents-in-law, cooperative colleagues.

What's more can I ask for?

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The worst time has passed... September to December can be a nightmare yet students come and go. So does tonnes of workload. I do complain about students, workload and the boss when the earth keeps revolving. Adopting a positive attitude does help.

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lkm2007 發表於 14-4-9 11:36
我已向學校申請半職，因有位同事一直都有這想法，所以大家夾得到。我之前也感矛盾，因冇左半人工，但細想冇 ...

O.5的位和人工, 但係0.7 - 0.8 的workload?
我的同事試過為阿仔做一年半職, 同另一同事夾, 但兩個變相 0.7 / 0.8, 一年後俾副校問轉返full time, 因為超唔方便行政, 剛好佢啊仔的問題有D起色, 所以轉返, 另一個同事跟住離職

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發表於 14-4-10 12:29 |顯示全部帖子

本帖最後由 edith208 於 14-4-20 15:11 編輯

cch0928 發表於 14-4-9 16:23
其實我都想positive d,但係人老了，要成個幾二個月都係每日瞓得三四個鐘改功課，我真係完全不能控制咁depre ...

My worst time was marking compos and listening tasks in a shopping mall every Saturday, standing and waiting for my kids' extra curricular activities to finish in the first term.

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發表於 14-4-22 09:26 |顯示全部帖子

好彩, 小朋友學校冇乜school day的親子活動, 放假呢幾日對住兩歲4個月的細仔同7歲2家姐, 細佬有好大進步, 肯講下野, 下個星期返學, 佢又返婆婆家訓6晚

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發表於 14-5-1 21:35 |顯示全部帖子

引用：大家在邊區住或教書

原帖由 maychch 於 14-05-01 發表
本帖最後由 maychch 於 14-5-1 20:10 編輯

大家在邊區住或教書? 我住青衣, 在荃灣教小學, 已18年啦. 老 ...

我都18年嘞，3個小朋友，早年教的學生都结左婚，小朋友都上小學。大家係facebook都講湊仔女經、揾學校。壓力人人都有，頂唔順就放低份工，但又煩全家收入開支的話，唯有頂硬上。The best is yet to come.

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發表於 14-5-2 12:04 |顯示全部帖子

maychch 發表於 14-5-1 20:07
所以我遇過幾個校長都是無兒無女的. 大把時間留校工作. 有兒女的想做校長都難D.
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同我差唔多年資的3個未婚都升到小學或中學副校, 一個同我一樣年資, 升佢冇升我, 不過我都好happy可以manage 3個小朋友, F6走左, 帶少Dmarking 返屋企, 可以煮下飯, 整下甜品, 做下家務, 雖然有時有苦自己知, 起碼有份工, 唔使憂柴憂米, support到小朋友參加喜歡的課外活動, 買自己鐘意的東西.
後生的老師, 不要太擔心, 衡量各方面, 做一個兩害選其輕的決定, 我地呢行, 比上不足, 比下有餘

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Pastorale 好羨慕

亦欣賞你!有時真係睇下自己放唔放得低。發表於 14-7-6 06:38

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rachel1024 發表於 14-5-1 00:08
我教英文，都代到唔止十日，但多數代產假。每個月收入萬幾二萬，但長假無收入，亦辛苦，無任何福利。
我懷 ...

有冇考慮教VTC / asso 之類?
不過有D學生都幾 ... 有D似以前的band 5

asso 會好D

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cch0928 發表於 14-5-2 19:55
你一定做嘢好快好efficient。我做半職都做唔到日日自己煮飯。好似今日咁，我現在啱啱先走,六點半開完會再搵 ...

I don't cook every day. Kids have ECAs in the evening and we eat out 2 evenings out of 5. At weekends, we eat at my parents and my in-laws.
Well, it depends. I sometimes idle and don't want to work. Yet after idling, I need to work at a turbo speed. I need to hurry to finish work at school before rushing to kids' school to pick them up after ECAs.

My parents help a lot too.

My husband helps with weekend ECAs but works late on school days because of extra lessons at school and private tuition.

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rachel1024 發表於 14-5-3 21:01
咁真係可以諗諗喎，謝謝提供資料

An old colleague of my husband quit the secondary school last school year and then a primary school in the middle of the term (2013-14) and started teaching at DI after January 2014. She seems to be more satisfied with post secondary students.

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ccchong 發表於 14-5-12 11:47
我都教咗十二年中學了，教2科dse subjects，好辛苦。而家走左中六先可以準時收工。我BB而家先1歲 ...

你得的, 我3個都係人奶B, 大的P4, 最小的2歲4個月
日子幾難過, 都係咁過, right?

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cch0928 你好勁呀！我兩個大的只有四個月，細的都只可以餵到半歲咋！本身供應少，返工又冇時間pump,放工又夜唔夠瞓，晚晚都頭暈眼花。你三個都做得到，真係唔容易！發表於 14-5-13 19:14

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boyceyan 發表於 14-5-13 13:39
思想積極！我成日都想唔做

feeling sleepy right now when i m in a hurry to finish marking before exercise book inspection.

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ccchong 發表於 14-5-13 05:24
三個都人奶？你好勁呀！

Kids' health deserves this nursing process. We have saved a lot of time and money on seeing the doc when comparing with many other parents.

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ccchong 發表於 14-5-13 05:24
三個都人奶？你好勁呀！

The worst was to express milk in the handicapped washroom and when it was time to express milk, I had a double lesson.
I felt terribly irritated when I was sleepy at about 9 pm before my kids slept. Yet when I look back, I always feel blessed to pass the bad time. I know some worse time will come when dealing with my kids' school work (as I sometimes face) and my own work.

When we open our eyes in the morning, we have passed another day. Let's face it positively.

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發表於 14-8-31 16:26 |顯示全部帖子

本帖最後由 edith208 於 14-8-31 16:26 編輯

smileygemini 發表於 14-5-30 17:45
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等我俾d正能量大家啦！

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9月2號佢正式做K1仔

每日兩個女做功課, 操3晚水, 每晚C6去我媽接阿仔返屋企

希望manage到放工後, 每星期煮兩晚飯, 照顧3個小朋友, 夠訓返工

祝大家明天開工大吉