I have to work. 62, 99, my Dad & Mom all cannot help me. I have to rely on the domestic helper. So far she is OK. She loves baby and is very hard working. Everyday, I have to go to market after work. At night, I will take care of CY on my own. I do not ask my DH to sleep with CY. Moreover, CY wakes up many many times each night and I have to attend to him . Its really not easy.
Having said that, I still appreciate very much to the full time mom as I really could not be the full time mom. I would rather work. Cheers to full time mom