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Big-Mouth


大宅

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發表於 08-5-31 10:05 |只看該作者
一d都唔殘忍, 如果係媽咪自己照顧和教導, 唔返都無問題。
我個仔係62&99照顧, 現在已2歲, 唔識自己飲水、去厠所、食飯、說話能力好差。 62怕啊仔走的快, 唔肯帶佢去遊樂場, 怕趺倒! 以前細時,啊仔好怕人, 其他人抱都會哭,99就話係天生。其實小朋友學習能力很高,特別6歲以前, 但當家庭教育未能配合, 返幼兒園, 係一個好方法。下星期一, 啊仔都返幼兒園, 可惜62堅持唔比佢返全日。
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sayuri


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22#
發表於 08-5-31 10:34 |只看該作者
我都煩緊2歲插班讀n1定出年9月先讀n1, 阿仔2月出世, 而家16個月識聽唔識講, 我想早d比佢返半日, 全日就唔洗, 因為有工人+99揍, 成日係屋企淨係睇電視同埋走黎走去
稀仔係一個為食b, 乜都要試下, 而家24磅!!
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birdbird


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23#
發表於 08-5-31 10:47 |只看該作者
我屋企有工人湊bb,
我都係在bb滿2歲時就比佢返半日 pre-nursery.
始終幼稚園的老師比較專業,
識得引導bb.
我覺得bb返o左學見識多 o左,
而且到上k1時好快適應.

如果屋企冇人湊bb,
我覺得返全日班都係一個好的安排,
bb會快d學識自理, e.g. 食飯,
& 比較守規.

我唔覺得比bb返全日幼稚園對bb來說係一件苦事.
老師 & 學校有專業培訓bb.
好過bb日日在家對住工人/老人家/電視
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Shellley


男爵府

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24#
發表於 08-5-31 18:28 |只看該作者
My daughter joined N class since she's was 2 years old. She enjoys going to school so much wow.

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月希


珊瑚宮

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2024年龍年勳章 好媽媽勳章 畀面勳章


25#
發表於 08-6-1 11:27 |只看該作者
我仔一歲7個月就入托兒所添...佢不知幾開心..

講真...成日係屋企你眼望我望..佢不知幾悶..返左托兒所..日日有一班小朋友一齊玩一齊瞓...lunch又有營養..重有tea添

我仔由返托兒所同幼稚園都未喊過..佢好like返學架
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littleflowers


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發表於 08-6-1 15:26 |只看該作者
樓主千祈唔好咁諗呀，依家啲幼稚園唔會要個小朋友成日坐响度讀書架，佢地有好多活動架，有得學唱歌、手工、畫畫同做運動，好全面又有同年齡嘅小朋友陪住，不知幾好呀，好過佢成日留响屋企玩、訓同睇電視吖。

如果可以我覺得返全日仲好，啲自理能力真係好好多架，我個囡嗰陣都有同我講响學校要幫手執玩具、幫老師排桌椅、仲有時幫手分湯匙添，又識自己食飯同飲湯、訓醒覺又會教佢地自己著返鞋襪咁，唔係話要佢學識咗就一定要响屋企做，但係起碼都叫做識，我知道有啲小朋友就係太倚賴屋企嘅工人同老人家，有好多應該要識嘅嘢都唔識，如果淨係留响屋企教，有時又會唔忍心，有時又會幫佢諗藉口~~佢仲細，遲啲就會識咁。

況且依家啲屋企通常得1個小朋友會好悶架，有其他小朋友同佢玩佢會開心好多架!
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chinghomama


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發表於 08-6-3 15:54 |只看該作者
坦白講呀樓主, 你既心情我超明白....
以前我係媽咪幫我湊架, 但后來我弟婦生左, 我媽就無幫我湊啦, 果時我個仔好在啱啱2岁囉...
因為要返工, 我都好唔情願咁, 要比個仔返學, 果時我都好唔開心架, 自己返工前就要送個仔返學, 到放工啦先可以接個仔走....
所以我果時成日唸, 個仔好慘, 返學時間重長過自己返工....
而且初時返學, 真係個個星期都要睇医生, 佢辛苦我又辛苦, 真係好想放棄架....
但其實所有辛苦, 唔開心同担心, 都只係一個過渡期架咋, 捱得幾個月, 你同你既小朋友都會慢慢適應呢種生活架啦....
我個仔而家2岁8個月, 係呢8個月既學校生活, 佢真係進步左好多架....
其實當你見到你既小朋友有進步時, 幾辛苦你都覺得值得架啦....
而且, 比小朋友返學, 佢地可以早啲學識自理, 独立同合群, 对個小朋友都有好處架...
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peggy888


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發表於 08-6-3 18:22 |只看該作者
my son is 25months, he will go to N1 in August for half day. Now he cannot talk only say a few words. It seems like he's very much behind other 2 yr old. The reason i send him to school is

To learn to talk

To play with others

At home俾人種壞

Only watch TV..
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ff88


男爵府

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發表於 08-6-6 21:33 |只看該作者
I think it is good for BB to start schooling at 2. Like my BB, she is 2.1 now and she will go to nursery in Aug (whole day). She is so eager to learn and to play with other BB but she is our only child at home.
The main point is to choose a nursery with high quality. It does not mean you need to pay more for tuition fee but the teachers are nicer more more caring and the activites are more meaningful.

原文章由 maggie217 於 08-5-27 21:54 發表
我個仔今年8月足2歲，想今年9月讀幼兒班，

但因工作關係和無人幫手照顧，要讀全日班！8:00-18:00

我首先唔知我個仔能否適應長時間在學校，

二來覺得他什麼都唔識，講說話都仲講BB話，

我應該放手給學校處理定係應該讓他再大啲 ...
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Oscarmom


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發表於 08-6-7 00:40 |只看該作者
my son is 2yrs3months and he start pre-nursery on April, he only cried for 3 days, now he really enjoy to go to school and very happy in the school. He likes to dance, sing and do the art in school, sometimes he feels boring at home even he has brother to play w him, i don't want to let him watch the tv all the time so it is better to let him learn something and spend some times in school.

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IRON


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31#
發表於 08-6-7 17:48 |只看該作者
又唔好講到"殘忍"2個字.

不過個人意見如可自己湊就真係唔駛咁快去返學, 畢竟太細個, 自理係可以學, 但人地真係唔會跟足囉(咁多人), 特別係女女, 唔夠衛生真係唔掂. 自己湊, 睇住佢長大, 一齊玩, 一齊食, 過左就無架啦, 閒時都可去下playgroup, 公園, 又唔會話無群體生活既.

不過唔許可既就無得講啦.
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DavidMa


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發表於 08-6-7 21:05 |只看該作者
原文章由 haihaimom 於 08-5-28 13:57 發表


My son reached 2 years old on Feb. and i send him to N1 on March even though I have a maid and my mother to look after him.

My reason is
1. They spoil my son
2. They don't know how to teach him tal ...



That's exactly why I let my son go to school on his birthday. The maid will spoil him....

In the school he learn a lot, like using chopsticks when he's only 3yrs old. Will not picky on food because teacher ask him to eat all the food school provide. My son never drink milk other than his own brand and will vomit if he sip that. But the teacher encourage him to try finally he can drink up one whole cup, the teacher taken a photo of him drinking and write down on his report to praise him.
N1 is actually a whole day playgroup much better than stay at home with the maid and watch TV.
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hiragana


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發表於 08-6-9 10:25 |只看該作者
I sent my daughter to Nusery when she was 2 yrs old as well... At start it is a bit cruel to her for going to school so many hours.. but she get used to it slowly...
my daughter cannot talk as well when she first go to school.. but now she gets better..

[ 本文章最後由 hiragana 於 08-6-9 10:27 編輯 ]
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mrs.blog


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發表於 08-6-11 10:42 |只看該作者
你所指的"返學"是什麼類型的學習呢？
我覺得2歲可以去PLAYGROUND玩玩，見見世面都是好事啊﹗ 小朋友慢慢就會適應。
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happy_cow


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發表於 08-6-15 23:49 |只看該作者
我支持你呀! 返學好呀...

試問小朋友日常起居飲食(早午餐), 生活習慣(禮貌,大小便,社交), 等等, 你邊有咁多時間教呀!?

至少N1呢年老師/學校會幫到你

而且2歲後, 小朋友變得好快, 係真架, 我囝囝未夠2歲時我都唔覺, 可能會覺得悶, 對生活亦開始有少少要求, 你時間上又未必滿足到佢的要求...

其實放學後你反而可以好好享受同佢相處的時間, 都不失為一個好的選擇

如果想對小朋友好啲, 反而可以考慮搵間好啲啲的幼兒園俾佢, 至少你自己又唔需要成日擔心佢健康的問題

[ 本文章最後由 happy_cow 於 08-6-15 23:52 編輯 ]
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bbjan


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發表於 08-6-18 20:17 |只看該作者
i also sent my daughter to N1 when she was 2yr old. She cried for 1 month and now after 6 months, she enjoyed it v much. And when she went to interview, the teachers can tell the difference.
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wakeup07


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37#
發表於 08-6-21 18:52 |只看該作者
I think that is not a problem at all, as long as the school is clean, teachers are nice and love children, then you won't be worry too much while you at work.....

my son start going to school at 1 and half yr old, 3 days per week, only one hour to train him more socialize with people, at least he stop crying while the strangers get close to him... then after that, even he go to pre-nursery, kindergarten never cry a bit (only him never cry in class)..
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