原帖由 cherrie0215 於 15-10-09 發表
答單問,唔accept可以點?
Same case here
其實如果真係接受唔到:
1. 冇小朋友又唔想用長時間fix問題, 可以consider give up... 因為行落去, 問題都會一路喺到, 直至其中一方had enough 都係會分。
2. For whatever reasons 如果唔想/唔可以分, 就要change 自己個mindset... 可以試下list down in order of preference 你想要嘅 lifetime partner 有啲乜嘢條件+personality/characteristics... 你可能會發現, 其實徐咗你focus緊嘅嘢之外, 有好多list上面嘅嘢佢係有... or 對佢嚟講係可以meet到你要求 (對佢嚟講係做得到又唔mind做嘅)。 當然, 你list嘅嘢要係reasonable
要明白, unless you learn to appreciate... almost no one 會嫁到個100%中晒佢要嘅嘢嘅人... 如果你唔去學appreciate... 同只睇佢meet唔到嗰啲points 到, 你就算揾過個, 都可能會係咁...
我個case... c6都係一個唔上進嘅人... 當然未有小朋友之前呢樣嘢impact細啲... 宜家有小朋友我有時都會想佢上進啲等屋企生活好啲... 但係諗番起... 我以前鍾意佢係因為佢心地好同funny... 唔係因為佢會make lots of money... 我宜家只會有時remind佢工作要小心啲同上心啲... plus因為佢知道我冇錢會冇安全感佢都does his best去比錢我keep... it is already the best he can do for me whilst being himself...