i am 37 now and have a kid at kindergarden. i truly believe having a sibling for my kid is good for both of them. i tried 3 IUI but all failed. I am thinking whether to have IVF.
i prayed very hard in the last few months, seems no answer from Him. i asked for indication as to whether to go for IVF, but again, no answer.
On the one hand, I know i am old, if i don't do now, i can't do it later. i am thinking whether i should try my very best and let Him control the final result.
On the other hand, i feel like, after 3 failures, the indication is that i won't have a second one. i should accept it and treasure what i have.
there are a lot of ?? in my head. why me? both my husband and i are healthy, i don't know why is it so difficult for us to have baby, even for our first one, it was a painful process. but others even at my age, can have so many babies so easily.
do need some positive energy from you sisters. my husband is neutral, he is happy to have one. if i really want a second one, he supports.
thanks so much. can't really talk to my friends, they won't understand.
concitato 發表於 15-11-23 15:28
very good topic
im still waiting for my 1st baby for 2 years...
I would like to join the prayer in here with you all JM.
I believe we all have differ experience to "WAIT" for the baby,
it is hard and would let us felt disappointed after we tried a lots.