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複式洋房

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發表於 08-8-24 01:30 |只看該作者
小朋友開始返幼稚園喇~
返學好多時書本或老師教學都會提起爸爸媽媽
請問........
我要點同小朋友講爸爸去左邊(個衰人有時會打電話黎,唔可以講死左)
要點樣做?
我怕小朋友覺得自卑或與人不同.............


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發表於 08-8-24 02:25 |只看該作者
個c6會唔會間中黎睇小朋友? 如會, 話佢要番工, 放假先可同佢玩...但如無見, 就話佢去好遠番工, 要住係果度, 又要照顧麻麻, 唔好promise個細會幾時見到c6....如佢提起時,只話爸爸都好鍚佢. 要簡而短. 之後拉開話題, 引開注意力...

以上只屬個人意見咋...都要視乎情況去變通....

唉, 做人阿媽已辛苦, 做個單親阿媽仲辛苦, 要湊唔緊要, 但要為左保存個c6形象, 仲要想盡辦法去"騙" 個小朋友, 當然我地甘做都係為左仔女有比較正常既心理同樂觀既心態做準備者....


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發表於 08-8-24 14:50 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 wakeup07 的文章

十分贊同您的意見. 當年我囡囡未識得問...不過佢知發生物野事囉! 情緒上有好大起伏 ..... 令老師都覺得有問題, 要見家長. 唉!


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發表於 08-8-24 18:24 |只看該作者
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發表於 08-8-26 11:19 |只看該作者
原文章由 wakeup07 於 08-8-24 02:25 發表
個c6會唔會間中黎睇小朋友? 如會, 話佢要番工, 放假先可同佢玩...但如無見, 就話佢去好遠番工, 要住係果度, 又要照顧麻麻, 唔好promise個細會幾時見到c6....如佢提起時,只話爸爸都好鍚佢. 要簡而短. 之後拉開話題, ...


i agreeded with wakeup07, as your kid seems too small..will not understand too much..give her 6 to 9 months to get used with the live without daddy and then to tell her the truth..as you need to observe his emotion during this period and then to find the way to talk to her..you may consult with social worker in school and tell the teacher in order for them to take a look with yr kids


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發表於 08-8-27 01:18 |只看該作者
原文章由 KITTY8899 於 08-8-24 01:30 發表
我要點同小朋友講爸爸去左邊(個衰人有時會打電話黎,唔可以講死左)


I think even if your hauband doesn't call often, it's not good to lie to your children that their father had die.


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發表於 08-8-27 01:24 |只看該作者
原文章由 SingleDaddy 於 08-8-24 18:24 發表
just tell them the truth. That is what i told my daughter. She will understand you. Dont worry


Agree... just tell the fact. Please remember not to add judgemental comments on your husband though.


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發表於 08-8-27 21:39 |只看該作者
如果直接講事實, 擔心囝囝明唔明呢? C6都冇養過, 見過佢


原文章由 IaMMoYY 於 08-8-27 01:24 發表


Agree... just tell the fact. Please remember not to add judgemental comments on your husband though.

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