Someone has to move on with life but not living in the past and with anger. She has already put the case to court, vented her anger on all channel -- I believe at her own church, at least posted twice here at different forum, may be her own family and friends...... She is not giving up the incident and love to be treated as a "victim". Everyone here is trying to tell her to get out of her own trap and move on with life. As a Christian, the only best way is to forgive and forget because God has already done the example for us to copy. We all want her to move back to a happy and postive life..... Same application to all sort of tragedy....