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Life is not meant to be perfect. Take it easy. Complain sometimes, but not all the time. Forgive if u can. Afterall, u yourself are not perfect and say or do wrong things sometimes.

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vivy_rcc2007

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Living a western life style does not mean 'always complain about something'. Usually people stand firm on their values/principles, complaint is one of many ways to express themselves. (by the way, while making a complaint, western people also bring up some solutions, do you?)

For minor issues, maybe you can just relax a little bit then you'll find your life easier and happier.

Make good use of the close connection with your family, have a chat with them seeking for their opinion before you start to blow up. It is possible that sometimes things are not as serious as you thought.

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我覺得自己e家人大左,無細個果陣咁怕事,有時真係對方做得唔好既,我出多左聲.
呢一年,我試過投訴的士司機,投訴食市污糟(最終佢地要罰錢). 有d人話我多事,但我真係唔抵得d人做野得過且過,消費者比錢,換黎既係咁待遇,呢啖氣真係忍唔到.
但有時,我多左理解人地既苦處,特別係做cs果d,有時錯不在佢地,佢地都係解釋公司policy, etc, 只不過佢地咁唔好彩被編到要答我野, 我又覺得聽唔入耳. 佢地都係打工姐,無謂搵佢地做出氣袋啦.

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發表於 08-10-15 00:41 |只看該作者

I usually complain when I expect to get some real benefit (like free coupons, less charges, quicker services, etc). Otherwise, I will not complain to save my "air".

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發表於 08-10-15 00:49 |只看該作者

if you always complain, that means you are too harsh to yourself, not to others..... ppl can only get relief when they can forgive others and make peace with others....

Remeber, if you can't stop complaining in the daily life, the one who suffered is yourself..... easy going, easy minded, you'll get more than expected...

輕鬆下啦,香港人..

原文章由 conniechan1975 於 08-10-15 00:11 發表
i dono why if this is my character BAD or i really do the right thing

when i see or meet something i am not satisfy. i will call the department to complain

e.g. toilet dirty.. complain to mall's cs
...

[ 本文章最後由 jiwawa 於 08-10-15 01:00 編輯 ]

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講開呢樣野,其實我親眼見過,有d朋友無乜脾氣,既來之則安之既,佢地成40既50歲人,但外表好後生.
有d成舊mung薑咁,凡事都諗唔好既方面,成日覺得人地欠左佢咁,呢d朋友殘得好快,真係睇住佢地30之後成個人無晒光彩,大概相由心生呢句野真係無錯,佢地個樣你一望就知唔易相處.

我就唔知自己可唔可以做到咁豁達喇,有時脾氣呢樣野谷住唔發又唔舒暢,但成日咁mung我又怕自己老得快.

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發表於 08-10-15 06:53 |只看該作者

我覺得你太執著啦...
有時睇開d,你會開心d...

你d親戚講得岩,人地都係出份人工,你可必苦苦相迫呢..

仲有你自己成日係度嘈,唔覺得成日潑婦咁咩?relax d啦..香港人...

我係外國住左多年,無錯,有唔岩既會出聲,但唔係下下去投訴囉...仲有有時投訴根本係無用ga..人地聽左就算,我做過某大公司既CS,我地聽完d投訴咪講幾句sorry..都唔會report返比boss知ga啦...

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I only complain if it can improve the situation, or if they deserve it.

For example:

- No point in being angry with the cashier/teller for the long lines at checkout because it is not their fault - should complain to management as they are the one who schedule manpower within their company. Be reasonable if the sudden surge in customers is due to something out of their control (such as a storm or power failure).

- No point in yelling at customer service on the phone for keeping me on-hold for 30 minutes everytime. Vote with your feet and change supplier / company, then send in a letter telling them that they have lost a loyal customer by their cost cutting and poor planning.

- No point in complaining about the poor service / repair records of the lift at where you live. Join the owners' association (or Body Corporate as it is known in Australia) and work on making positive changes. Sometimes, it is only when you attend the meetings and listen to other people's complains, you realise that management has to face a lot of problems too.

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放鬆D,人都靚D.太完美主義會好辛苦,呢個世界又吾公平,有時一些事都吾係一個人,個體既事..可能會係企業甚至社會既事,投訴係一個途徑但不是所有野既解決方法.投訴前要想清楚,因為有可能俾你因為小事投訴既人,會無左份工..甚至更多野,但你只是改變到小小既SERVICE..

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原文章由 conniechan1975 於 08-10-15 10:41 發表
but sometimes really very angry

e.g. wait for airline telephone for 3 hours. then operator ans my call.. 3 hour ar.. 3 hours all is music...

you mean u kept being on the phone for 3 hours?!
i never do that.
if the line is busy, hang up, call again at different time.
i wont waste 3 hours just waiting! i dont have such patience and time.
btw, which airline did you call?

the best way is write a letter to their cs expressing your view instead of yelling at the one answering your call. she's not the one to blame.

[ 本文章最後由 gion 於 08-10-15 10:49 編輯 ]

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咁我又唔會樣樣投訴既, 不過我試過因為好少事攪到好大...

話說有朝早我去7-11買野飲, 個牌明明打住特價(減左5毫), 但係當我比錢個陣就係原價, 我同個收銀講, 我話明明標住特價架喎, 個收銀姐姐話出左咩價錢就要我比咩價錢, 好啦, 我趕住番工, 無同佢嘈

返到公司, 我即刻上消費者委員會既website投訴, 估唔到唔夠1日已經收到消費者委員會寄黎既confirmation信, 唔夠兩日, 有專人聯絡我話已經搵到負責人, 負責人想同我電話道歉, 咁我就call左呢位負責人, 個負責人係電話度同我道歉之餘仲希望同我安排5毫子既退款

我話, 唔駛喇, 不過下次唔好

諗起我都有少少變態

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原文章由 conniechan1975 於 08-10-15 10:57 發表
it has music. so i use speaker phone. on the other hand, i play computer. so when there is someone ans my call. i look at the clock. already wait 3 hour

air canada in vancouver

hahaha. their service is so ridiculous then!
加拿大D人做野就係咁，話之你等左成日。去買野比$，排晒長龍，但D收銀依然咁慢，冇話好似hk咁，手腳快少少兼開多D counter梳導下，慣左香港節奏快又有效率，有時真係好難適應果邊既滋悠。

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