Sorry to hear that. I've experienced about the same thing. But of course there're miracles I believe.
Last year I had an ultrasound at 9 weeks, we could see the heartbeat and the size of my BB was normal, but about a few days later I had a little light brown so I went to the ER. They had a vaginal ultrasound this time but could not hear my BB's heartbeat anymore. I went to another doctor and the result was the same. I waited for a few days more and then went for another ultrasound but still no heartbeat. So I had to do the D&C.
It's a very sad thing I know. But try to have courage. Maybe there will a miracle!
Don't be so sad. U are not the only one who had that experience. Many sisters here can listen to you and share your feelings.
I am the one who had similar experience and also was handled by Dr. Tung. I think Dr. Tung should have already explained for u that usually the stop of the BB's growing b4 its 3mths was due to the DNA problem inside the BB, so the "nature" had made the best choice for you.
You may hv learnt from others that it's easiler for one to be pragnant after miscarriage. So to prepare for your next pregnancy, be positive and maintain a better health.
However, I also want to share with you my exp, so you can avoid taking the long path for your next trial.
My 11-wk bb did not wait for my decision to 食藥 or 刮官 and came out by itself. Later, I was told by two Chinese doctors 刮官 should be the best choice. Once you are "clean", you can take the Chinese medicine and good food to better your health.
Actually I was confirmed by Dr. Tung that I was "clean" and could prepare for IVF again after 3mths. Unfortunately, I then found the "long-tail" problems e.g. 炎症, belly-pain in period, non-stop M, etc. I spent over one year to see the Chinese doctors and do more ex to have a better health, now I'm ready for my IVF plan again. so let's try together, never give up.
I also have 3 early miscarriages after 5 iui and 1 ivf. I'm now 34 and still no bb. I'll try again in April 'cos I just finished an operation. i still don't give up.
to you, still have chances. you can try iui again later (after 3 months). don't be sad. you're not alone. be positive then you can have bb at last.