i did bring my former helper with me as a reward as she really helped me a lot in every aspect of the housework. she could also help me take care of my child when we dine out.
but i won't bring the present one because of her poor performance. i even think that i won't share birthday cake with her at home, she doesn't worth it.
No. I don't like to take care of one more person. Except you need her help to take care of the very young kids, otherwise, I will not bring her outside.
We tried this before which I think it's excellent:
Ask her to eat before dining out with you!!!! Then she can take care of the baby without you paying or rushing your dinner!!!!