We also have no backup at all-----no 99, no grandparents, no relatives nor sisters to look after 3 kids (including one pair of twins).
We also have to work hard to support the expenses. However, the kids have grown up now and studied in so called famous school as well.
I remembered I was alone when I was lying in the hospital for one month because of TTS (twin-twin transfusion). However, I never thought of giving up the twins because I know the tough time will pass oneday.
As I said, life is never easy and God never promises to give everyone the lucky life. But why
give up so early! Think twice before act!
God plans everything not us. I also don't plan to have twins especially we've got a son already. However, if God gives us the gift (twins), I'm happy to accept them even we also don't have much backup. If God gives you the gift, he will lead you the way as well. Don't plan too much and scare yourself a lot. Sometimes, we just follow God's will and he'll prepare everything for us. If you don't believe in God, you can also believe in yourself as well. Human will release incredible ability to survive! Don't give up too early and you've got to help yourself!
At last, whatever decision you've made, don't regret!
Good Luck!