I think you are worry how to take care your daughter and BB. BF directly is the first step to success. My experience is after 1-2mths, when the milk supply stable and BB has developed eating schedule. My BB could play by himself and would not stick your body as new born. I did not use pillow to bf him when 6wks. Now I just hold him in my arm and feed directly anywhere, so feeding become much easy, free and joy. Just try it this time, many mum mum here support you.