原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 10:58 發表
If you want your brother 擺酒結婚...... Do you pay all the expenses for him for 擺酒?
If not, then don't force him to do what you want.
The one to get marry is not you. Therefore, don't request your ...
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 12:31 發表
sorry to hurt you.
However, that's what you said before:
但有d男人完全聽晒老婆話又唔好囉
好似我細佬咁
聽晒老婆話, 連結婚咁大件事, 話唔擺酒就唔擺酒(但其實佢自己想擺), 話要旅行結婚就旅行結婚(我細佬係長 ...
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 12:31 發表
sorry to hurt you.
However, that's what you said before:
但有d男人完全聽晒老婆話又唔好囉
好似我細佬咁
聽晒老婆話, 連結婚咁大件事, 話唔擺酒就唔擺酒(但其實佢自己想擺), 話要旅行結婚就旅行結婚(我細佬係長 ...
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 12:31 發表
Therefore, before you request others to do sometimes, it is better to think in another angle.
Therefore, don't start the war easily.... you will give high pressure to your brother.
P.S. I am not thinking as "我係人新抱"的角度來睇
And I don't think that 一定係覺得老公應該跟自己的意願走 (a man who 100% follow his wife.... is not a man anymore!)
However, what I think is:
Your brother has his family now. And you (if married) and your parents have your own families. You are all in independent families. Therefore, don't control/force other family to follow their own idea (if you are not in theri family), then we will have a good relationship with each family.