原帖由 gi999200 於 09-3-5 12:41 發表
如題
原帖由 莎莎莉莉 於 09-3-6 09:23 發表
好難一概而論係好定唔好架喎
我老公無話聽邊個話, 因為佢有自己主見
當然, 少不免佢既諗法同佢阿媽相近一d
始終佢都係佢阿媽教出來嘛
但有d男人完全聽晒老婆話又唔好囉
好似我細佬咁
聽晒老婆話, 連結婚咁大件事, 話唔擺酒就唔擺酒(但其實佢自己想擺), 話要旅行結婚就旅行結婚(我細佬係長子謫孫~~), 根本屋企人乜野意見下, 折衷方案都唔聽, 我唔覺得呢d男人有乜咁好囉
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 10:58 發表
If you want your brother 擺酒結婚...... Do you pay all the expenses for him for 擺酒?
If not, then don't force him to do what you want.
The one to get marry is not you. Therefore, don't request your ...
原帖由 莎莎莉莉 於 09-3-6 11:39 發表
唔擺酒唔係問題
而係, 我地話連自己親人吃餐飯, 擺三幾圍都唔得
佢地結婚咁耐, 連斟茶俾我父母都無
因為個女仔唔肯
請唔好曲解人地的意思
同埋, 我細佬係想擺
我爸爸都話可以出錢
只係個女仔堅持咋
結婚係兩個人 ...
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 12:31 發表
sorry to hurt you.
However, that's what you said before:
但有d男人完全聽晒老婆話又唔好囉
好似我細佬咁
聽晒老婆話, 連結婚咁大件事, 話唔擺酒就唔擺酒(但其實佢自己想擺), 話要旅行結婚就旅行結婚(我細佬係長 ...
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 12:31 發表
sorry to hurt you.
However, that's what you said before:
但有d男人完全聽晒老婆話又唔好囉
好似我細佬咁
聽晒老婆話, 連結婚咁大件事, 話唔擺酒就唔擺酒(但其實佢自己想擺), 話要旅行結婚就旅行結婚(我細佬係長 ...
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-6 12:31 發表
Therefore, before you request others to do sometimes, it is better to think in another angle.
Therefore, don't start the war easily.... you will give high pressure to your brother.
P.S. I am not thinking as "我係人新抱"的角度來睇
And I don't think that 一定係覺得老公應該跟自己的意願走 (a man who 100% follow his wife.... is not a man anymore!)
However, what I think is:
Your brother has his family now. And you (if married) and your parents have your own families. You are all in independent families. Therefore, don't control/force other family to follow their own idea (if you are not in theri family), then we will have a good relationship with each family.
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