我都問過同一个問題,答案係難.
雖然我而家29 wk,未生.第一次做媽媽,好多問題都未遇過,如果bb冇早產,好好凑,食完又訓訓完又食,但好多時唔係咁簡單。bb会病,發高燒,如果老公番咗工,又得番自已一个,咁點算呢?去唔去医院呢?如果兩个一齊哭,咁餵边个食先,如果一个噴奶,一个食緊奶,咁餵完先定處理另一个呢?太多如果問題,所以我唔想請都要請。同理好多問題自已控制唔到,尤其是new born bb,你要自己問吓自已可否承受一段可能半年or一年,冇得訓冇得食嘅日子呢?不過每个人都唔同,可能你好強可以ok,but我唔得所以請兩年再睇吓點囉!
My view is that the helper is not only for the children, it's also good for me - with a helper, I can go out with my husband and friends. It's good for emotional health.
原帖由 emily3992 於 09-4-2 14:00 發表
My view is that the helper is not only for the children, it's also good for me - with a helper, I can go out with my husband and friends. It's good for emotional health.
MY TWINS ALSO EXACTLY THE SAME AS YOU. MY TWINS ALSO SPOIL BY MY MOTHER. ESPECIALLY THE YOUNGER ONE SHE IS SO BAD TEMPER. MY TWINS ALSO ONE YEARS OLD NOW. THEY ARE ALSO NOT SO CO-OPERATE WITH US.CAUSE THEY DON'T LIKE TO SLEEP IN THE AFTERNOON AND DON'T LIKE TO EAT MUCH. NOW THEY CAN WALK A LITTLE AND LIKE TO CLIMB ALL AROUND. I AM SO AFRAID THEY WILL GET HURT, BUT YOU CAN FOLLOW THEM EVERY MINUTE.