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尋晚c6返佢屋企食飯, 我唔去, 自己0係屋企煮粉食. 佢問我點解問我9次8次都唔上去, 但我上兩個禮拜已經上左去食飯, 仲要比99寸, 話我呢樣唔食, 0個樣唔食, 唔知煮咩比我食, (佢一早知我齋, 唔係揀飲擇食

), 所以我咪費事上去囉. 我c6當然話佢阿媽無講過啦, 我唔同佢爭辯, 我話我地係兩個家庭長大, 一定會偏幫自己屋企人, 我以前講過99嘅野你都唔相信, 我理解, 但唔相信並不代表無發生過, 所以我上親去食飯都會好唔自在, 出街食我完全無問題. 佢話佢屋企當我係一家人, 我真係一d都唔覺得, 呢樣野係你一廂情願, 唔係你屋企人, 佢話唔係....

我話我對佢每個星期返屋企食飯全無阻擾, 因我知佢孝順, 佢阿媽鍾意同佢傾談,但佢話佢自己一個上去好大壓力, 因99會成日好有壓力問佢點解我唔上去喎.... (唔上咪唔上囉, 唔想見你呀 ! 上黎又要比你寸,頂親你就唔好啦!:;pppp: )c6問我如果調轉係佢唔上我屋企食飯, 我父母會點? 好彩, 我爹娘唔會問咁多野,佢地只會叫我留湯比c6飲, 因為佢地知道個女婿唔得閒先會唔出現, 唔會比壓力我.
佢又問我佢對我屋企好唔好? 好, 好好, 好到我阿媽錫你多過我! c6當然口啞啦!
我同c6講如果佢想將我同佢屋企人勉強夾埋一齊, 係一件吃力不討好嘅事, 到最後可能完成唔到仲要攪到家嘈屋閉! 兼且我受軟唔受硬,我叫佢咩都唔駛做, 或者將來有日會好.
c6最後講左一句 : 只要你覺得開心就得喇, 你知我愛你多過愛自己.
我知佢唔會再迫我上去食飯, 但佢係會唔開心, 所以即係話當99又比壓力佢嘅時候我又要同佢嘈過!

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barbie公主,

好又一餐, 唔好又一餐, 就算d野唔啱食, 一餐半餐算啦. 你同c6返去同99一齊食飯, c6都會開心d, 佢都會鍚你多d, 何必為呢d事傷左你地兩個感情呢??? 佢串你咪唔理佢囉, 或者唔講咁多私事俾佢知.

如果係我, 我會返去食, 起碼俾c6知道你重視佢屋企, 第日你屋企有咩事, 佢都會同樣重視返, 大家互惠互利姐.

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You are really a 公主 and I am sure you don't know how to give 'face' to others (include your husband)!!!!

原帖由 barbie公主 於 09-7-20 12:20 發表
尋晚c6返佢屋企食飯, 我唔去, 自己0係屋企煮粉食. 佢問我點解問我9次8次都唔上去, 但我上兩個禮拜已經上左去食飯, 仲要比99寸, 話我呢樣唔食, 0個樣唔食, 唔知煮咩比我食, (佢一早知我齋, 唔係揀飲擇食 ), ...

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唉...我尋日都為左呢樣野同c6嗌交....
我想問你地可以接受你地既c6一個星期返幾多次99屋企食飯?

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其實我已經每兩個禮拜同佢屋企食飯, 我唔明點解要迫我個個星期見佢地, 而見親佢就會話我呢樣0個樣....
我亦從來去食飯都係咩都食, 只係依家因為某d原因要食齋, 都係為左屋企好, 佢就話我呢樣唔食0個樣唔食, 我平時都係一碟菜攪掂, 我係無要求佢煮d咩比我食
有好多99講嘅做嘅野令我好唔開心, 而c6都唔覺得有問題,我都無頂佢, 因為我知我c6會唔開心, 所以我先會少見為妙.
就算c6一星期日日返去見佢屋企我都無問題, 只要唔好迫我同佢一齊去就得喇.

[ 本帖最後由 barbie公主於 09-7-20 14:20 編輯 ]

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我又係經常同C6為左去唔去99度食飯而嘈交

我真係唔係好明囉，點解係都要我去食飯先，好啦，我無所謂既，但次次上到去食飯都俾99單打，又話我唔食飯(我平時食開半碗飯，上去99度已經食1碗架喇，竟然話我唔添飯係怪人!)、又話我唔食魚(我本身好鍾意食既，但有左bb之後就好怕聞到魚味，解釋左俾99聽，佢都唔理)....仲有好多野話我(例如話我唔服待個老公、老公瘦左....)，講真，係人都唔想上去食飯啦，如果99唔係把口甘賤，我都無所謂，我初初結婚都返得去食好密架！唉....我C6仲話99同佢講:"係咪我做錯d乜？搞到家嫂唔黎食飯？"嘩....扮可憐，超反感，搞到我C6話99其實好可憐....我心諗，我阿媽、阿爸夠想見下個女婿啦，但佢地知道我地做野忙，禮拜六、日都過下2人世界，所以都唔駛我地返去食，我都無出聲啦，有時真係想鬧下隻C6，我阿爸、阿媽都好可憐丫！

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d C6實唔覺得自已阿媽講d野有問題、有骨架啦，你同C6講話99講野有骨，d C6仲會話:"你諗多左o者、99為你好o者..."

原帖由 barbie公主 於 09-7-20 14:16 發表
其實我已經每兩個禮拜同佢屋企食飯, 我唔明點解要迫我個個星期見佢地, 而見親佢就會話我呢樣0個樣....
我亦從來去食飯都係咩都食, 只係依家因為某d原因要食齋, 都係為左屋企好, 佢就話我呢樣唔食0個樣唔食, 我平時都 ...

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原帖由 黑白豬 於 09-7-20 14:24 發表
d C6實唔覺得自已阿媽講d野有問題、有骨架啦，你同C6講話99講野有骨，d C6仲會話:"你諗多左o者、99為你好o者..."

exactly!!!!
超同意
又話:"佢無惡意既....你唔好對佢咁有敵意,咁抗拒先得ga!"
但我聽左真係唔開心囉!
我可唔可以學99咁天真無邪&老言無忌咁亂講野??
答案係唔得囉!

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唔係咁難解決啫，不停重覆同奶奶講你食齋，再唔係上去食飯時預先話俾奶奶聽：我整左碟齋好好味，帶埋上去同你一齊試下...

sis，有時D野唔睇僧面睇佛面，俾你攞晒上風但令老公心淡，又何必呢？可能你今次行出一小步，同老公感情行出一大步都未定，到時有賺添！

努力啦!

原帖由 barbie公主 於 09-7-20 14:16 發表
其實我已經每兩個禮拜同佢屋企食飯, 我唔明點解要迫我個個星期見佢地, 而見親佢就會話我呢樣0個樣....
我亦從來去食飯都係咩都食, 只係依家因為某d原因要食齋, 都係為左屋企好, 佢就話我呢樣唔食0個樣唔食, 我平時都 ...

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好憎99成日扮可憐、扮委屈甘，仲同C6講暗示我俾死貓佢食....
講真，初初結婚果陣我99無乜出聲，我都ok，我知道老人家要尊重，但佢之後越黎越過份，次次d說話都超有骨既，我點忍丫，我99仲勁，佢次次見我C6行開左，就會單打我架啦，所以C6根本乜都唔知....

原帖由 kalincliff 於 09-7-20 14:34 發表

exactly!!!!
超同意
又話:"佢無惡意既....你唔好對佢咁有敵意,咁抗拒先得ga!"
但我聽左真係唔開心囉!
我可唔可以學99咁天真無邪&老言無忌咁亂講野??
答案係唔得囉! ...

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You are wrong! =>d C6實唔覺得自已阿媽講d野有問題、有骨架啦

When we just got marry, we 每個sunday 食飯 in 99's flat.
We usually went to 'tea' with 99 62 on Sat. (we paid)
i.e. twice a week

After 1 month, my 99 ask for extra $ from my C6.
99 said: You 2 'eat' me frequently. Therefore, you should give extra pay for your 'food'.
my husband: I have already give you living expenses monthly (xxxx). I also pay the mortgage of your flat ........
99: The $ you give me is my (and 62) living expenses, not include you food. You are now eating my 'rice'. Therefore, you should give me the extra $ for your 'food'.

Then, my husband only 食飯 in 99's flat in the festivals (each time we will buy something for her, or give her a 'red' pocket of $500). And I will force my C6 to have 'tea' with 62 99 sometimes (when I have time). However, it seems that my C6 don't want to eat outside with them........ It is because my 99 ask all other sons, daughters, sons in-law, daughters in-law....(all families) everytime. And we should paid for the meal (10 or more people).

原帖由 黑白豬 於 09-7-20 14:24 發表
d C6實唔覺得自已阿媽講d野有問題、有骨架啦，你同C6講話99講野有骨，d C6仲會話:"你諗多左o者、99為你好o者..."

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呢d係會令人唔開心，好多人都會有同樣既遭遇，你咁諗可能會開心d!

如果你先生連每日去左邊，同邊個食飯都向奶奶報告，你會覺得更不是味意!

如果你奶奶連你想帶個仔出街都要加意見，要照佢意思做，你會更想死!

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原帖由 catlover2001526 於 09-7-20 15:14 發表
呢d係會令人唔開心，好多人都會有同樣既遭遇，你咁諗可能會開心d!

如果你先生連每日去左邊，同邊個食飯都向奶奶報告，你會覺得更不是味意!

如果你奶奶連你想帶個仔出街都要加意見，要照佢意思做，你會更想死! ...

我９９就係我帶ＢＢ去街佢都要管～唉！

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原帖由 catlover2001526 於 09-7-20 15:14 發表
呢d係會令人唔開心，好多人都會有同樣既遭遇，你咁諗可能會開心d!

如果你先生連每日去左邊，同邊個食飯都向奶奶報告，你會覺得更不是味意!

如果你奶奶連你想帶個仔出街都要加意見，要照佢意思做，你會更想死! ...

我結婚初期就係咁喇..
可能唔一齊住啦,初初都會忍..
過咗2個零月..忍唔住..
同老公講..係唔係咩都要通報你阿媽架..
如果係..要唔要幾時上床咩咩咩都要同佢講,
要佢批准呀..
老公即時唔再出聲..
之後我老公先改變咩都要講比佢阿媽知既性格...

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我c6真係日日call 佢阿媽報告行縱

, 初時我都覺得有d怪, 咁大個仔仲要報到

, 但諗深一層, 佢只係想同自己阿媽傾吓, 對我又無影響, 所以我就無理佢囉... 佢咁嘅practice都已經4年喇..... 總之佢自己做, 唔係要我日日同佢阿媽報到就得啦, 我連自己阿媽都無報到

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好同情妳

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我一星期至少都會去99到食一餐飯，順便帶阿B比62見o下(因平日是99去我屋企睇b的)，有陣時都唔想去，但知c6好想，咪去囉，最多唔出聲，有骨既說話當聽唔到，好又一餐唔好又一餐，當減肥囉!!
為左頭家，忍忍忍忍......

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-7-20 14:45 發表
You are wrong! =>d C6實唔覺得自已阿媽講d野有問題、有骨架啦

When we just got marry, we 每個sunday 食飯 in 99's flat.
We usually went to 'tea' with 99 62 on Sat. (we paid)
i.e. twice a week

After 1 m ...

I think because your 99 likes

a lot, that's why your c6 doesn't want to go back to have dinner with them.

But there are many many 99, not for $$$, but for bad words to us, that's why we don't want to go back.

Everytime I go back to have dinner with 9962, I buy something to them. Still, they say bad words to me about me & my family (behind c6's back) everytime they see me, from the 1st second until end of dinner. I didn't black face, just silent but feel so unhappy inside my heart. So same as Barbie, I don't like to go back at all.

Now I still go back just for festivals, birthdays. Weekend dinner - no way, may be once a month la ! I just keep distant from them, they make me sick !!!

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