of course this is a problem la ! your son already slept and she woke him up for such small matters??? you can tell how much "love" she has on your son...
actually, the maid probably doesn't like we blame everything on her (but actually most are her faults).... I will try to give her the message... no matter it's her fault or not.. I hired her to look after my kids... it's her responsibilities to take care of the things lor.. no need to argue whose fault..
my maid also would blame on my 3-year son on giving paper to my 1-year daughter... so, i told her if my 3-year son can look after my daughter, I won't need to hire you...